Category Archives: Conversation

You have no right that

You have no right that someone agree with you You have an obligation Moreover to hear him or her :- Doug.

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Why are conversations so often about surface things?

Why are our conversations so often about surface things? Are we afraid of disclosing things that really matter? :- Doug.

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It’s really reflection and heart work

It’s really reflection and heart work, even though on the surface we are talking about nursing homes, Medicaid, and end of life decisions. :- Doug.

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Blocks in conversation

Blocks in conversation will not be overcome by turning away. Seeing ourselves as listeners, then hearers, then explorers hold promise. :- Doug.

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When you’ve said it all

When you’ve said it all, it’s time to go. :- Doug.

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Stop before you have said

Stop before you have said :- Doug.

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mystery draws us

In conversation it is mystery not mastery that draws us together—shared spontaneity, creativity, synergy, tears, laughter—and ultimately intimate vulnerability. :- Doug.

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though it produces no effects

Converse though it produces no effects Conversing is love expended The only needed reason to engage :- Doug.

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A favorite song of your mother’s?

What is a favorite song of your mother? What does it mean to you? :- Doug.

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This conversation can make this family better

This conversation can make the world better. Our corner of the world. This family. Us. :- Doug.

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Dialogue negotiates transformation

Dialogue negotiates transformation. :- Doug.

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Interesting stuff happens

Open ears. Open mouth. Interesting stuff happens. :- Doug.

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What good happens?

What good happens when you speak with one another? :- Doug.

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Remembering how

Remembering how Inventing how At times that’s why we converse How to what? Die Be present for this one dying Be present for this one living :- Doug.

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inexorably to healing

Hearing leads inexorably to healing. :- Doug.

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safe from the crisis

The conversations I invite take place safe from the crisis. Yet they prepare us for the crisis. In a sense they are memento mori (remember dying): memento viventium (remember living) in the face of memento mori. Not so we have … Continue reading

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Family conferences

In family conferences conclude by going around the table giving each person 60 seconds to say what our direction ought to be. :- Doug.

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