Monthly Archives: May 2012
Elder caring is like running the East Race. I do not know how it will come out. It is different each time. :- Doug.
When one of us is aging our only options are to respond with love or fear. Anything not love is fear. :- Doug.
This family can live and love into our future. Let’s get to work. :- Doug.
What would you be willing to do to help your family come alive now? :- Doug. What would you be willing to do to help your family come alive now?
How young are you? :- Doug.
What questions could this family ask which would start us on a game of hide and seek? :- Doug.
I work with caring people some of whom are elders of our tribe :- Doug.
Thinking clearly with our hearts. :- Doug.
Elder life is a question without an answer. :- Doug.
One of the most pernicious things we do in this society is to act as if we are separate from others, especially from our family and friends. They benefit from us, and we from them. We should not withdraw, fearing … Continue reading
It is difficult in family long term care settings to see any larger truth, let alone make sense of it. What to do when we are blind? Maybe we can ask of one another: What else do you notice? What … Continue reading
So how do we profoundly, strategically, madly let to in a family system? We get hung up over what without question we believe is true. It is not true. What is true? I do not know. You do not know. … Continue reading
Our modern medicine has not made our maladies disappear; it has only made them last longer: made chronic what used to be acute. :- Doug.
How may we yet Be about Rounding our lives together? :- Doug.