Say you have a family with a medical crisis. Consider the scenarios that could happen here. Consider more than one. There are always more than one good choice. Open some conversation, engage them in what is possible, not just now, but for the next 30 years. How will what they do now play out over 30 years. Ask other care givers to help you noodle on it. A good first question is What’s possible now? Then, Is something else possible? What might the future hold? Is that all? Open the possibilities, open the conversations. You do not have the answers, you do not have their answers. You are here to help them find their own responses.
:- Doug.
