Maybe the conflict is between the need to control and the need to give forward. The resolution might be in choosing when and what to give. We are too quick to move to resolution: let us stay in this tension a bit.
To know thyself is to live the conflict between keeping my stuff—health, movement, decision-making, home place, place in the world—and keeping the sense of my worth which is passing along this sense to other keepers.
:- Doug.
