Category Archives: Trusts and Trusting

maps of the territory

I have maps of the territory and can act as your guide. :- Doug.

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I cannot answer your questions

I cannot answer your questions. I can only address them. Only you can answer your questions. You take in what I give you, adjust its fit and assimilate into yourself only what fits for you. :- Doug.

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Managing someone else’s money

Friends– The Consumer Financial Protection Bureau (a US government agency) has recently published some plain English guides available for free download. They will soon be available in print for free, too. The guide topics are: Powers of attorney Court-appointed Guardians … Continue reading

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If we did things to save taxes we may no longer

If we did things to save taxes we may no longer need those things. This is true these days of estate and inheritance taxes. It is sometimes more true as we grow in age. :- Doug.

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Trusts do the work twice:

Trusts are doing the work twice: once at start, once at finish. You need to get the property into the trust, then you need to get it out. Probate is doing the work once. You only transfer it from one … Continue reading

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Trusts and tuxes

Saying everyone needs a trust is like saying every man needs to own a tuxedo. They are great for special settings but not an everyday necessity. :- Doug.

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worth doing cheaply

The trust mills are staffed by people who believe anything worth doing is worth doing cheaply. :- Doug.

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I don’t care whether we use probate….

I don’t care whether we use probate or some other tool: let’s just get the job done. :- Doug.

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Why complicate your life?

Trusts: why complicate your life if you don’t have to? Simple can be elegant and your best fit. :- Doug.

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First, live well together….

First, live well together; second, see how the money parts can serve your living. :- Doug.

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Wills and Trusts are not difficult complex things

The difficult complex things in families are not how we write a Will or a Trust or a deed. Rather they are in getting conversations going, deciding directions, making life choices. People keep these to themselves often out of avoiding … Continue reading

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Love letters to our families

Wills, Trusts, Powers of Attorney, Personal Care Agreements, Living Wills, end of life caring, Long-Term Caring: I help people write love letters to their families. :- Doug.

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Vending machine picture of law

Many times we have a vending machine picture of law: put in a coin, out comes a certain result, predictably. Time by time we find we are in a flowing stream with 10,000 variables floating past, each can touch us, … Continue reading

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Our whole work

Our whole work is conversing, engaging, encountering, meeting: our whole work is bringing us to whole, our whole work is whole-making, whole-realizing. Our whole work is conversing. :- Doug.

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Work as inviting….

My work can be seen in terms of invite, free, call whole mmm. :- Doug.

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Cast your line into the water

I can be your guide, but you’ve got to cast your line into the water. :- Doug.

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Law, technicalities and guessing

Law is not solely about the technicalities: it goes beyond to what works, what is apt to work, and where peoples’ hearts want to go. All life is guessing; we must work also with art and heart. :- Doug.

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