Category Archives: Professional Caregivers

Things we ignore

The things we ignore as attorneys—the feelings, the desire to have the family get along, etc—are the main event for the client and her family. We could help. :- Doug.

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More life in time together

More life out of their days, out of the time they have together—this is something we can help find. :- Doug.

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Want to live their love

People want to live their love when someone needs help in age. I can help these people. :- Doug.

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When they will sleep

I see people who can head off a likely disaster by naming an “in case person.” Or now’s the time, and they need a paper to let them talk to doctors, hospitals, banks. I see people at their wits end … Continue reading

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“In case person”

People need someone to be their “in case person:” in case I get sick, who will make good decisions for me? Others need some legal authority to make decisions for Mom or Dad or Spouse. Some people are overwhelmed by … Continue reading

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Essential for Dad?

What is the essential thing for Dad and for the family in the face of Dad’s life as it is now? Essential for Dad: medical care? Custodial care? Working through the 47 things and perhaps spiritual or religious or psychological … Continue reading

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Anything less?

Is there anything less I can do for you? :- Doug.

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A good long while

If it’s going to do us any good, this pandemic will have to last a good long while. :- Doug.

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I’m going to do

I’m going to do what I can to keep this part of the world turning. More I cannot, less I ought not. :- Doug.

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Shape of money

This lady needs our help. Together. And help is not always in the shape of money. :- Doug.

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Won’t read when I retire?

If I say I won’t read my work subjects when I retire, what does that say about the quality of the work I am doing? :- Doug.

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Hung up on results

Don’t get hung up on results Care mightily about reaching across :- Doug.

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Florence Nightingale difference

The difference between care and caring is akin to the difference between healthcare and Florence Nightingale. :- Doug.

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Demented or augmented?

I’m not demented—I’m augmented! :- Doug.

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Draw me a look like

For dying patients and their families, the same question as for their doctors and nurses: What does that look like? Especially for the patients and families: What do you want it to look like, and not look like? Draw me … Continue reading

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Prayer offering gift

Everything is a prayer, an offering, a gift. :- Doug.

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Confused alive

Not being confused is not being alive. :- Doug.

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