Category Archives: Family

A Will we write

A Will we write Together With our spouse With our grandchildren to the 7th generation With our tasks and causes Our blessings and curses Our dreams and nightmares Our ancestors Our humankindness Together, only together :- Doug.

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The poetry of your life

The poetry of your life— where does it reside? in sons and daughters wives and husbands places we’ve lived jobs we’ve given up work which grew us tasks we were called to perhaps against our wills scraps of life we … Continue reading

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Your heirs will sing

What would cause the lives of our heirs to sing? Let us think about our heirs, our children, our grandchildren: What kind of a sense of humor does she have? What are his interests? With what does her imagination soar? … Continue reading

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What worlds create?

With a Will What worlds Can we Create? What ideals Now populate? What hearts Evocate? :- Doug.

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families come together

Good happens when families come together :- Doug.

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Your Will is not for ever

Your Will is not for ever —Re-read every two years Your love is not said and done —Repeat often :- Doug.

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Crotchety is okety-fine

Crotchety is okety-fine when conversing: just stand clear of our itty bitty egoity keep to our universality! :- Doug.

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Thousands dying this year of this

This year, thousands will die of not hearing. Hearing one another. Hearing is more than listening, more than preparing your response. This year, thousands will die of not being heard. Being heard is essential to continuing to live. :- Doug. … Continue reading

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Why we are frustrated with one another

We’re frustrated with one another and so we shout at “them.” We’re frustrated with one another because we have forgotten how to dialogue. We don’t know how to hear, how to meet. :- Doug.

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Our whole work

Our whole work is conversing, engaging, encountering, meeting: our whole work is bringing us to whole, our whole work is whole-making, whole-realizing. Our whole work is conversing. :- Doug.

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Before we part….

Make our next appointment before we part. :- Doug.

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The important thing

The important thing is that we converse. :- Doug.

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On not missing death

Death is something I for now think I do not want to miss. I do not want to be on morphine or other substance to make me sleep through death. I want to be thoroughly alert. For I suspect there … Continue reading

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We can live until we die

We can live until we die giving receiving giving —a respiration :- Doug.

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Lively and life-affirming conversations

These conversations turning about end of life caring are lively and life-affirming; these conversations are fun when you get them going; the essence of courage is to take a breath and ask people to converse; the essence of conversation, these … Continue reading

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Conversing about emergency medical decisions = loving

To have the conversation about emergency medical decisions is a loving thing to do—for them and for you. It makes their soul-searching easier when they are deciding for you, it allows them to know they are doing the last most … Continue reading

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News: MetLife Study of Elder Financial Abuse

Here is an updated study: http://www.metlife.com/mmi/research/elder-financial-abuse.html :- Doug.

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