Category Archives: Family

strength in vulnerability

There is strength in vulnerability, just as there is vulnerability in strength. :- Doug.

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This baby giggles

This baby giggles in your arms: sacred moment that cherishes you :- Doug.

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Why do we want our family around when we’re dying?

Why do those of us who want this Want our family around when we’re dying? Could it be because we want One last chance To find our strength in our vulnerable intimacy? To share our highest selves in our deepest … Continue reading

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The game, the fun, can take us deeper

The game, the fun, can take us deeper. It is not surface, can be seen by all of us as deeper once we reflect. Deeper partially because of the pause to reflect, partially because of looking at things from a … Continue reading

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Why a game?

Why a game? To get us to open up; get us thinking about dying; keep fun in it all; get us thinking more deeply about conversing with our families. :- Doug.

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It’s the challenge

It’s the challenge which makes family difficult & games & life & love fun :- Doug.

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Repairing our family?

Aren’t we about making whole, repairing the world, at least of our family, bringing parent and child together? And isn’t that difficult, dangerous work? :- Doug.

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We

We Play together Learn each other Frustrate Make demands Get angry Want to pull away Stay together Reopen Respond Play gently Let go expectations Embrace Take time out Take turns Change sides Change rules Become new again Vivid Fun Unanticipated … Continue reading

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the root of all challenges

O save us from conflict Battles and wars Competitors, rivals, enemies everywhere But the root of all challenges Is with one another: our connection :- Doug.

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We become more creative when

We become more creative when our heads are open. And hearts. :- Doug.

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On the trail

I’m on the trail of parent and child finding new ways to care for one another. :- Doug.

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Papa has “a touch the dementia”

Papa has “a touch the dementia” Mama knows better than the doctors, The financial planners and the lawyers, all Daughter’s emotions have static electricity Social Security says son’s intellect disables him The other daughter is overwhelmed By the financial numbers, … Continue reading

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Questions we can ask our children to start the conversation

Questions we can ask our children to start the conversation: Do you remember when X died? What did you think of the decisions made? How would you like to be treated then? To what age would you like to live? … Continue reading

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Finding the bridges between persons

If you are trying to find the bridges between persons, you are the one who first has to lay aside assumptions and exercise curiosity. :- Doug.

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Think not

Think not: meet. :- Doug.

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the all of us, the together of us

Engage, consciously engage, the all of the all of us, and the together of us: here is how we progress, here is how we love. :- Doug.

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A journey we make together

A journey we make together Dad is dying The dialysis is not doing any good Dad is fighting dying but getting tired Mom and daughter try to ask “the question” Maybe we can get the doctor To start the conversation … Continue reading

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