Category Archives: Eldering

no longer worthy of notice

If over the hill is when we stop contributing, then people are wise to treat us as no longer worthy of notice. :- Doug.

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My big test

My big test seems to be the death of my parents. The lesson was indeed subtle and fine. I have been trying to get it out in the open, poking holes in the grey cloth that covers it and me, … Continue reading

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Over the hill: when you stop climbing

Over the hill is when you stop climbing. It cannot be half way through life as some suggest, for the slide down is a much faster (and shorter) ride than the trudge up. Retirement for most marks the end of … Continue reading

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My hero’s journey?

Of what does my hero’s journey so far consist? What were the tests, the lessons? What the supreme test and what the message to bring back to the community? These will take reflection—thought alone will not suffice. :- Doug.

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Hearing your body?

Are you hearing your body—or are you shushing? :- Doug.

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capable of traveling at

My mind is capable of traveling at a hundred thoughts a minute. Resting. :- Doug.

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As I grow older

As I grow older I want to ponder. I want to write. I want to be encouraged to write. :- Doug.

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drawn to stillness

Be courageous to remind people they are drawn to stillness. More there is than our grasping hands can reach. Our grandchildren need us to be large. :- Doug.

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A higher respect

The highest in us deserves the respect of space for not knowing :- Doug.

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to joy and to cry

Life comes to joy with life and to cry :- Doug.

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The profound times

The profound times of our lives together this is where I work back and forth we pass our wisdom, poetry, and love staying lively in the nursing home living our dying those who will cry sharing laughter in these nows … Continue reading

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My qualifications?

My qualifications? I am a human being. My credentials? My birth certificate and my face. :- Doug.

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Two is divisive

Two is divisive. :- Doug.

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“I might run out”

When you’re sick and see your end approaching, money doesn’t buy you much—except fear. “I might run out.” It matters not how much you have. People with money sometimes fear more. Money and fear go hand in hand. :- Doug.

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Memento parit

Remember to birth whatever your age Memento parit :- Doug.

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Where’s the poetry?

Where’s the poetry in this? :- Doug.

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always larger

There is a larger way of looking at this. :- Doug.

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