Category Archives: Eldering

What can elders do?

What can elders do? :- Doug.

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Nor even to remember

We don’t need elders to fight Nor even to remember Rather to show us a longer view :- Doug.

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Re-writing the elder archetype

Let’s be about claiming and re-writing the elder archetype for our times and these people. What would fit your background and sense of calling? Your schedule, your energy, your resources? Whom might you elder? How will you “speak?” :- Doug.

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Take inventory

Take inventory—all that and who are important to you—people, living things, philosophy, spiritual, story, future, past, present, health, views. An early step in your eldering. :- Doug.

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Don’t be the ideal elder

Don’t be the ideal elder, take a step toward your elderhood. :- Doug.

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extend or grow?

Shall we extend our middling years, or grow ahead? :- Doug.

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involves work

Eldering involves work: on ourselves, our families and friends, our communities small and large: all with love. :- Doug.

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growth and service

Eldering: growth and service. :- Doug.

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Stance:

Stance: effective loving places demands upon me and my eldering. :- Doug.

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Elder or middler

Elder or middler? Many want to push older people to become just older middlers. Is that good for elders, for our society? :- Doug.

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It pays to get old

It pays to get old—it pays others more than us. If we choose. :- Doug.

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Keep on eldering us!

Keep on eldering us! :- Doug.

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Eternal middle age

We love pictures of elders doing things we do—say, golfing and sky diving—largely because it helps us stave off our fear of aging. Yet there is at least a third way beyond eternal middle age and falling apart: vital nurturing … Continue reading

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Eldering as

Eldering as calling, as movement, as joy. :- Doug.

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More about more

As a poet-caring lawyer my task is not to learn more and more about less and less; rather more and more about more and more. :- Doug.

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Counsel of elders

This idea of a counsel of elders is capturing my imagination. We cannot wait for institutions to figure it out—they are too busy, and stuck in the hospital-warehousing model. We need to work with the elders themselves (ourselves!), and families, … Continue reading

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Inventing aging

Our generation has an opportunity to begin inventing aging. :- Doug.

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