Category Archives: Eldering

Message today?

You need not figure out what is your prime message as an elder, once and for all time. What’s your message today? :- Doug.

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Good pain?

There is much pain in this room. For what good is this pain? :- Doug.

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Make room?

For what might the fading of our bodies and brains make room? :- Doug.

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Boons of age?

What do we fear of age? What can be its boons? :- Doug.

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the same?

Do you want to be the same as you have been? :- Doug.

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intentionally crossing

Eldering is not about having arrived, rather intentionally crossing thresholds. :- Doug.

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an age this difference

I can indeed make an age at this difference. :- Doug.

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the whispered call

We cannot know for ourselves how wise nor how conscious we are: we can only walk daily in that direction, allow ourselves to be touched, hear the whispered call. :- Doug.

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We had not thought

We thought our last important passages were into adulthood and into whatever death offered. We had not thought there might be something between. :- Doug.

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Gently awaken

Gently awaken. :- Doug.

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not an instructor

Be not an instructor. Be a sharer. :- Doug.

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What’s your name? Again. Again. Again. Again.

What’s your name? Again. Again. Again. Again. I am Douglas Germann. I am father, husband, lover. I am gatherer, community disorganizer. I am more than this. Son, brother, of humanity, of mystery. Larger. Now you…. :- Doug.

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We will be all right

What does eldering feel like? Moving beyond these momentary crises. Soothing flows around us, maybe through us. We’ve made it this far, we will be all right. There is a something larger than this moment. Maybe it is a mystery. … Continue reading

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some accept

Eldering is threshold some accept to cross transcending middling projects confronting larger sweeping :- Doug.

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Some answer

Elder-time is a call to growth. Some hear. Some answer. :- Doug.

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What of yourself do you need to let go?

What of yourself do you need to let go? What new do you suppose (you cannot know) would serve your next growth? What are the limits of whom you have been? What are the strengths you now need? :- Doug.

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Seek them out

Same thing for the elders themselves. There are people out there who want to do something: I need to seek them out. :- Doug.

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