Category Archives: Conversation

don’t know where this is going

I don’t know where this is going to take us. I know that your objection or detour is an important part of where we need to go. I need to go to some place deeper with this, for if we … Continue reading

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the boundaries between us

It’s not the boundaries between us help us grow. :- Doug.

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Listen with eyes closed

Listen with eyes closed Hear underneath words to melodies Larger plumbs us :- Doug.

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If to be alive has value

If to be alive has value to experience to see your mortality then a person of accumulating years and loosening mind is worthy for us to engage :- Doug.

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Conversation is art

Conversation is art not present in explaining it only in its doing :- Doug.

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or it is absence

Presence is receptive Or it is absence :- Doug.

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Where the tunnels intersect

Deeper is where the tunnels intersect. :- Doug.

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keep the hospital committee away

The second most important thing you can do to keep the hospital committee away is do a Power of Attorney. :- Doug.

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whom we thought

We are not whom we thought we were Nor whom we might have wanted to be Yet here we are and we may then Find new selves in meeting birthed :- Doug.

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Cheshire cat

It is the relationship—the meeting—which is real, the genesis of self and same. Self and same are the same word. All stems from meeting, like the smile of the Cheshire cat, last to go, first to come. So too person … Continue reading

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In the arms of dementia

How do we find the ground material of the universe in the arms of dementia? The ground material I see as life, as meeting. We then are in the place of meeting ourselves when we no longer have a brain … Continue reading

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You are really heard

You are really heard It really mattered That’s what humans do :- Doug.

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I was hurt

Perhaps approach this other person and say I was hurt. Be available. Be present. Offer and welcome. :- Doug.

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the person she or he was

She or he might not be the person she or he was, but she or he is not less than a person. :- Doug.

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Come, be heard

Come, be heard :- Doug.

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Promise to hear

True invitation is a promise to hear. :- Doug.

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Lawyer: person to person practitioner

Lawyer: person to person practitioner :- Doug.

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