Category Archives: Caring

Even in our last days

There are many parts to the human. Let’s take for instance head, hand and heart. All tire at different rates. The longer our view, the more that is possible to us. The more we see, the more we see. Our … Continue reading

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If doctors

If doctors have no desire for conversation, then we can take on having the conversation for them. :- Doug.

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The art of living together well

Law is the art of living together; Elder Caring Law is the art of living together well. :- Doug.

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Changing the rules as we age….

The effect of Elder Caring Law is to eliminate boundaries to life and finance and health: to open new horizons of time, connection, and wholeness. :- Doug.

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Elminate boundaries, open horizons

The effect of Elder Caring Law is to eliminate boundaries to life and finance and health: to open new horizons of time, connection, and wholeness. :- Doug.

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Keeping life and family in play

It is the purpose of Elder Caring Law to keep life and family in play. :- Doug.

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You’re in the elder caring woods….

You’re on a path through the elder caring woods: seek out a guide, notice the stars above, and hold hands. :- Doug.

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This infinite game

Elder Caring Law for me is about playing an infinite game with my clients, the infinite game of life and the purpose is to keep on playing it. :- Doug.

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Elders who are caring

Elders who are caring About their families, future & world Are the ones for whom we work :- Doug.

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The bigger job of Wills?

What is the bigger job of Wills, Estates, and Powers of Attorney, if not loving well? :- Doug.

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Hear Doug on good medical decisions

Friends– On Tuesday I had the pleasure of being on Dale Carter’s Blog Talk Radio show to converse about “How to Help Your Aging Parent with Crisis Medical Decisions.” The program was recorded, and you can listen to it here: … Continue reading

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Caring is about…

Caring is about heart. :- Doug.

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Families think together

Let’s help our family think together about ways to live more fully as family. Nursing homes are not storage bins; long-term care is not all or even mostly about money and disease: these are places people live, and we can … Continue reading

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Deeper with Alzheimer’s

How do we get to the deeper with a elder, say in an Alzheimer’s setting? What do they love, what did they love, what would make them more comfortable? Brandy on the gums, a grandchild’s hug, a song to sing, … Continue reading

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Play in late stages

Friend Bernie DeKoven has this wonderful post about play and Alzheimer’s folks: http://www.deepfun.com/fun/2012/03/play-in-late-stages/ You will be glad you took a look…. :- Doug.

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Fear not the doctors

Fear not the doctors Nor yet at them be angry Even, too, lawyers They are trying to do good To bring what’s needed They too hampered by our culture Turning treatment into care And care into money As if money … Continue reading

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Healthcare as easily changed as….

Seems to me that the word “care” has been taken over by the marketing people and the politicians, so that it now has a commercial character to it. My guess is that the doctors and nurses practicing in the 1950s … Continue reading

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