Category Archives: Aging

contribution to life?

What has been your contribution to life? :- Doug.

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not about

This is not about understanding. :- Doug.

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bewildering and uncertain times

Friends– Here’s a quote with which you might identify: “In three weeks we will be married for 55 years, it’s been a wonderful, loving partnership with plenty of challenging times and we are committed to hanging out together. However, I’ve … Continue reading

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What was that about?

Are you figuring out what your life was about? :- Doug.

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or projects or problems?

In a nursing home are there people or projects or problems? :- Doug.

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Make good

Make good our time. :- Doug.

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Patterns?

What are the patterns of your life? :- Doug.

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70:

70: Things about my life :- Doug.

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The last control

The last control is of our own framing of our lives. :- Doug.

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Peace with

Do we want peace with our life? :- Doug.

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flush

In our later years, our lives flush before our eyes. :- Doug.

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Thinking slow thoughts

Thinking slow thoughts can be worthwhile. :- Doug.

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satisfactory, satisfying death?

What would be a satisfactory, satisfying death? Since the past can be changed by finding a different context what picture could use reframing? :- Doug.

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Conflict: control and give forward

Maybe the conflict is between the need to control and the need to give forward. The resolution might be in choosing when and what to give. We are too quick to move to resolution: let us stay in this tension … Continue reading

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Voices

Voices of Worth :- Doug.

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Our elders deserve our respect

Our elders deserve our respect. Notice that when we age we deal with Loss and Worth, and these tightly bound in tuggle and huggle with one another. :- Doug.

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Your mind can grow in flexibility as you age

Your mind can grow in flexibility as you age. You can see new things. You can think new thoughts. You can open a new trailhead. :- Doug.

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