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Own anything you want

Own anything you want in your Will you can! & then give it away to whomever you wish! Give the White House to your garbage collector the moon to President Lincoln to your children the entire saved-from-your-lifetime contents of your … Continue reading

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Listening or hearing?

Listening or hearing? Listening is something we do to another; hearing we do with them. Listening is concentrating on ourselves and our doing; hearing is letting others and their experiences soak into us. Listening is about us; hearing is about … Continue reading

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Sleeping on a question

Sleeping on a question gives you opportunity to lie down beside it close your mouth let the question do its work let it open your heart and ears so it can speak lowly slowly there floating you might brush Sleep … Continue reading

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Will us eyes

Will us eyes eyes you have loved ones with crinkles in the corner ones which pull on dimples ones with tears and ones which see into your deeps :- Doug.

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die, used up

To meet is to drop shields, expose our most vulnerable, tender, growing parts, and to risk mobilizing just these. We may indeed fall and die. We cannot be sure how far those immediately behind us get. But we know that … Continue reading

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In poetic law

In poetic law, we not only do but ponder: in gifts and donees we see meaning; beyond Dollars and numbers love. We look among the trees and find forests & paths & sunlit openings. In streams flowing we find future … Continue reading

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For centuries we have been looking to see smaller

For centuries we have been looking to see smaller. Think electron microscopes and atom splitters. Now I want to see larger. :- Doug.

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Let us get busy

Let us get busy :- Doug.

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mystery is revealed

As we age mystery is revealed for ever mystery :- Doug.

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Breadcrumbs

How often we stop our thinking! Our train is interrupted by a fleeting observation, we start to reflect, maybe catch a glimpse of something profound, but we stop it to get back to the little task at hand. We could … Continue reading

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how to be truthful

We don’t know how to be truthful to one another about dying. :- Doug.

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If I die a sudden death

If I die a sudden death Let it be while doing something I love So I need always to be… :- Doug.

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Our ubiquitous servant-master

Our ubiquitous servant-master —try to get anything done when it is on vacation— is electricity yet maybe when it’s out we can do something real :- Doug.

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bureaucracy makes invisible

A bureaucracy exists to make invisible Those who would pull our strings And turn them into fences :- Doug.

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swing each other round

Life is full of lively concepts and movements notice, and mind wants to dance arm wants to hold and swing each other round :- Doug.

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not about death

This is not about death, nor even about dying: rather about living as we are dying, for surely we are all dying. :- Doug.

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Snowflake swirls her skirts

Snowflake swirls her skirts Dances her singular and only With hundreds she’s weaving A single white comforter One smile in the human soul :- Doug.

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