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Elder Caring Lawyer

The larger is in

The larger is in The small of life too Sitting, waiting, engaged :- Doug.

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Know

If you’re in it You know :- Doug.

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Evidence based

Evidence based is a term of endearment in the medical and academic communities. It is otherwise for me. I see it as a way we avoid coming to grips with real people. It converts everyone and every story into a … Continue reading

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Invitation

I tend toward anger when my heart is not received. Strange! I should tend toward compassion. Compassion for the other. Compassion for my own soul wanting to feel and express anger over the hurt. It is OK to fight, I … Continue reading

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good!

Make good! :- Doug.

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compare

Do not compare yourself with another. :- Doug.

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favorite courting music?

What was your favorite kind of music when you were courting? :- Doug.

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Lively longer

Lively longer: let’s stay! :- Doug.

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My long suit

My long suit is long, deepening conversation. :- Doug.

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share hearts

This is a work that lets me share my heart. :- Doug.

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Alive inside Alzheimer’s

Started watching a video last night called “Alive Inside.” It is about music and memory, using music on ipods to awaken folks who have turned inside with dementia and Alzheimer’s. Some top people are interviewed and some science is shared, … Continue reading

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dogs and horses chasing each other

The dogs and horses are chasing each other around next door. Perhaps to get warm, perhaps just in joy. :- Doug.

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sit a beat

Let yourself sit a beat with this :- Doug.

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Patience too is action

Patience too is action Emptying goes beyond patient waiting Emptying too is action :- Doug.

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As I grow older

As I grow older some things are slowing others speeding :- Doug.

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Grandpa in a pile of kids

This Grandpa loves to get on the floor in a pile with kids and tickle, wrestle, hug. Unknown to any of us—certainly to me for many years—there is here a message. We are one. We are. There is joy here. … Continue reading

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A commodity Will

You want a commodity Will: That is not the kind of Will I do, and no one does well for you who does that. Every Will is for a particular person. The Wills of Husbands and Wives always mean different … Continue reading

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