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To air

Born. Become bigger. Learn some new things. Grow bigger. To air—mist-ified. :- Doug.

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Change core mythos

We, especially we elders, are in a position to change the core mythos toward getting along, helping one another, actualization, caring, and communion. :- Doug.

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Thinking play

We are here to evoke thinking work…and play. :- Doug.

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Nearness

Nearness is a good word for me to think about: it suggests communion as well as approximation, and indeed communion seems to suggest approximate knowing of another. :- Doug.

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Noticed?

What have you noticed about growing older? Your body, attitudes, likes, speed, needs, viewpoint, spirituality? :- Doug.

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Chew?

What are you going to chew on? :- Doug.

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Shared thing unknown

Can the grandchildren benefit all their lives from the shared thing unknown? :- Doug.

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Don’t know?

What is it you don’t know from which the grandchildren might just benefit? :- Doug.

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speaks of generativity

The psychologist speaks of generativity The poet of grandchildren :- Doug.

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Grandparents’ advantage

An advantage grandparents have over parents: distance, perspective, long-view. We do not need to deal with the immediacies of injuries, illness, discipline, and paying the bills: we can be mentors, friends, confidants. :- Doug.

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Body antenna

Use your body as an antenna to receive what other bodies are feeling or sending. Mirroring posture and gestures is one way. Noticing discrepancies between words and gestures. :- Doug.

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So adventure!

Adventure in the larger inclusion —all is guess, inexact, imprecise —all is open So adventure! :- Doug.

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Flows down hill

Actualization flows down hill Love seeks its own level :- Doug.

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caring do am

I use the word caring because it is something that I do…and something that I am. :- Doug.

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Wink more!

Wink more! :- Doug.

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Here we do

Here we do something special. :- Doug.

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Decrepitude

There follows decrepitude. Not all experience it. Some perhaps even seek it after other parts of their lives. It might be short, or it might last years. Might it include some spiritual dimensions? :- Doug.

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