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Building the preferred

Deeper, we need it to be about building the preferred future into the grandchildren. :- Doug.

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World looks differently?

In what ways are you growing? In what ways does the world look differently to you from how it did a few years ago? :- Doug.

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Lever long enough:

This is the lever long enough: What sort of humanity do you choose? :- Doug.

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What sort of humanity?

Now that we’ve learned to keep on growing, to see bigger, and to play, we need to apply these things to the question: What sort of humanity will we choose? :- Doug.

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Task of imagining

Eldering is in large portion a task of imagining. Imagining yourself into the grandchildren’s world, imagining a future discontinuous with the present culture. :- Doug.

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Few choose elder

There are today few elders because we do not choose; few choose because we do not imagine. :- Doug.

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No measuring stick

Past adult we need a different measuring stick. For instance, speed, ability to move fingers or juggle numbers, eyesight have no place. Insight to a larger world, spiritual unfolding, and mediating between numinous and mundane are examples of eldering. Measuring … Continue reading

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Step past adult

Elder is a step past adult. :- Doug.

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A dimensional work

Eldering is a gift much more a dimensional work :- Doug.

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Take upon ourselves

Whether or not we can converse with a grandchild-elder, we take upon ourselves the transcendence of ourselves. :- Doug.

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Elders enrich experience

Beyond recounting elders enrich experience :- Doug.

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Growth

Growth a gift of the years a task :- Doug.

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End of Life Conversations: Have them for yourselves

If you are going to help people with these conversations, you need to have them for yourselves. Note I did not say by yourselves. You need to have them with your loved ones; and for them. For it is a … Continue reading

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What did you see?

What did you see in nature when you were growing up that you don’t see today? Fireflies? Bugs on the windshield? Monarch butterflies? People visiting on Sunday? People sitting on their porch? Kids studying bugs? Kids making up their own … Continue reading

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Three elders gathered

Whenever two or three elders are gathered there am I the grandchild :- Doug.

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A bridge a seed

a bridge a seed a spore a dream a grandchild a field a query an opening a freeing a serendip an ancestor’s roles :- Doug.

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Fewer words

Poetry gives us fewer words to say more :- Doug.

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