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Remembering forward:

Remembering forward: it is an enigma that puts me off balance. Can we remember for the 300 years grandchild-elder? Can we remember from them to us? More: do we need to converse with them, or enliven them, send love swirling … Continue reading

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Remember forward

Let us remember forward. :- Doug.

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Writer’s work enlivens

One writer’s work enlivens, another’s is barren. Heed, ancestor. :- Doug.

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Leaping ahead in our sleep?

Still I wonder about communicating, conversing, across the generations. Are there subtle paths? We can at least communicate toward them with letters and writings and recordings. Perhaps longer lasting things like plays and literature and poetry that might get preserved. … Continue reading

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Allow them surprisingly

We owe respect and care to those going ahead of us—whether elders who are dependent on us physically or mentally or those of the 300 year grandchildren generation of elders. Allow them the freedom to go ahead and to explore … Continue reading

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Withdrawing elder

Modern Magellans show us one road of the withdrawing elder. :- Doug.

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Teach what matters

Despite physical and mental decline, elders can still teach us what matters. :- Doug.

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Increasing elders’ music

We’re not about increasing respect of elders, rather creating a world more hospitable for the grandchildren. Melodies and harmonies, many and varied instruments, dreams and epiphanies, hear and make the music. :- Doug.

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To start exploring

What do we do to bring up elders’ level in society? Many people have not thought about this, so to spring this question of someone unprepared, unawares, is unfair. I need to give some ground on which to start the … Continue reading

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End of a human’s value?

Must mental incompetence or physical dependence be the end of a human’s value? :- Doug.

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The Generativity Experiment:

Generativity is an experiment; if it fails, it has still advanced the grandchildren. :- Doug.

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Feed your growth

Feed your growth with reading, meditation, contemplation, art, meeting grandchildren. :- Doug.

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Elders like Jubilee

Maybe elders are like Jubilee: a wonderful idea never adequately given a go. :- Doug.

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Names to carry

Give the elders names of respect, names not to have but to carry, names to which to add honor, names to later bestow on others. :- Doug.

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Fend off crotchetiness?

Might eldering, by keeping one contributing, especially contributing at higher levels, fend off crotchetiness and decrepancy? :- Doug.

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Elders never were?

Maybe elders never were; it is time; we are the ones. :- Doug.

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What does practical mean?

Seems elders will have to be the ones to prime the thinking about building that future. First, what ought that future look like; second, how do we build it in? On the first question, if we use the outline Grow, … Continue reading

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