Elders have a profound value to give: our blessing. Sometimes it is sought without the person knowing what they seek. We can give it in non overt easy to take ways: you are seeing more here than meets the eye: trust yourself; let me tell you a story; sometimes I suffered for making that kind of decision though a different decision would have left me uneasy. A hinted-at blessing can be of larger value for the work of unwrapping.
:- Doug.
