Category Archives: Healing and Wholeness

We elders need to work

We elders need to work to bring meaning and being together in flesh :- Doug.

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Meaning I might forget

Meaning I might forget. What then? Will I have no meaning? Will meaning have anyone? :- Doug.

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An act of kindness and grace

An act of kindness and grace it is to allow someone to do something nice for you. :- Doug.

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Hearing: Healing

Hearing: Healing :- Doug.

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What’s better?

What’s different? What’s better? :- Doug.

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a slowly turning fan

Ever get lost in a slowly turning fan morph yourself with the clouds? :- Doug.

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Only the silence knows

Only the silence of death ever knows whom we were and what we were worth so we in this preceding dark ought for life flare out :- Doug.

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to break the spell

This can be said of the elder This is a human who has become whole More truly is every day becoming whole So this one not intruding on the world Begins for us to break the spell of separation :- … Continue reading

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The realm beyond

Eldering is in the realm beyond mere wholeness of self. :- Doug.

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Like Grandma Moses

Write beyond the covers of your book, paint prolifically like Grandma Moses, create stories for someone’s grandchildren to dream on…. :- Doug.

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one on one days

What does it mean to be an elder? It means grandchildren, community, inhabiting a larger world, a softer, gentler, larger responsibility. It means the generations, far-seeing, human-sized one on one days. :- Doug.

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Longer circles

Elders draw longer circles. :- Doug.

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I am about to die

I am about to die. I am walking into a forest dark. I cannot see another side. I may die many others, indeed I can hope to die many others, before this body disintegrates back to elements. Death, the way … Continue reading

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bring a larger in

How well am I investing my life this hour? This hour of friendship spent in non-productive tasks—talking to others, helping my friend, not knowing if I am of help—I ask if this is the purpose of life, at least my … Continue reading

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becoming friends with dying

Dying as we grow acquainted with it becomes giving and loving and reaching out. So live my eldering days that I am becoming friends with dying, that my dying becomes: my dying becomes me and vice versa. :- Doug.

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about—marriage?

Tell us about a time you learned something important about…marriage? :- Doug.

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Skippingly work

Eldering is work, a different kind of work to be sure. It is work on yourself as much as on the world. It is losing yourself beyond grieving, beyond sacrifice, to skippingly chasing after it. It is finding a larger … Continue reading

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