Monthly Archives: August 2018

Echoing whispers

Can we communicate with the 300 year grandchildren-elders, back and forth? Who knows if we can, so let’s try! Write letters, record stories and messages. Send thoughts. Pretend it can be. Play with it! If our thought to them left … Continue reading

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Our wider generativity

It is up to us to be the critical mass for deeper community, higher justice, wider generativity. :- Doug.

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Names to your heart

Who are your elder-exemplars? Might you take their names to your heart to carry forward to another generation of elders? :- Doug.

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A model for the elder

The monk or nun in a cell, the guru in the mountain cave: these holding the world to its axis are then a model for the elder: we can hold a world in the palm of our heart…. :- Doug.

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Calls forth rains

The rain does not so much cool the air: incoming cool air meets the warm humid air, calling forth rains. A useful metaphor for ancestors and grandchildren? :- Doug.

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Ever of value

An ancestor reminds me of a chambered nautilus: ever growing, spiraling, without muscular involvement; ever of value for the grandchildren. :- Doug.

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5-level spiral

Our work for the generations spirals us around It, Thou, Us, Poetry, Collaboration. We hold and hear you, grandchild, and together we spiral. :- Doug.

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Hears intimately

The task of the elder is in part holding the grandchildren, similar to how a Quaker might say holding you in the light, or others hold you in their hearts, and somehow more immediate and intimate. The elder hears you, … Continue reading

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“Successful” inapropos

“Successful” seems inapropos of elders; there is here no goal, no reaching, only in higher moments a thrust of the heart For the Grandchildren. :- Doug.

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Elder respect irrelevant

Traditional cultures respected elders in part for what the elders did for the family and tribe: inform of good hunting grounds; share their accumulated agricultural lands; know the signs of the seasons and weather; guide through the spirit worlds. Many … Continue reading

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Grandchildren cannot afford

The grandchildren cannot afford for us to be concerned with respect for the elders—we must be for the generations. :- Doug.

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Remembering forward:

Remembering forward: it is an enigma that puts me off balance. Can we remember for the 300 years grandchild-elder? Can we remember from them to us? More: do we need to converse with them, or enliven them, send love swirling … Continue reading

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Remember forward

Let us remember forward. :- Doug.

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Writer’s work enlivens

One writer’s work enlivens, another’s is barren. Heed, ancestor. :- Doug.

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Leaping ahead in our sleep?

Still I wonder about communicating, conversing, across the generations. Are there subtle paths? We can at least communicate toward them with letters and writings and recordings. Perhaps longer lasting things like plays and literature and poetry that might get preserved. … Continue reading

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Allow them surprisingly

We owe respect and care to those going ahead of us—whether elders who are dependent on us physically or mentally or those of the 300 year grandchildren generation of elders. Allow them the freedom to go ahead and to explore … Continue reading

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Withdrawing elder

Modern Magellans show us one road of the withdrawing elder. :- Doug.

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