Category Archives: Healing and Wholeness

When you are dying….

When you are dying what is the work you are doing? :- Doug.

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The Work and the Words of Dying?

What are The Work and Words of Dying? :- Doug.

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The work of peace

How might we take the work of peace in death to our society, a society that thinks death is a failure? :- Doug.

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For cure or for care?

If you are terminally ill do you want to be treated for cure or for care? :- Doug.

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The uncommonly good

Let’s look among us for the uncommonly good. :- Doug.

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When is death?

When is death when a loved one has dementia? When the personality disappears? How much of it? When the body disappears? :- Doug.

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Who’s doing it well?

Who’s doing it well? Follow that one. :- Doug.

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Make room

Help families make room for a good death. :- Doug.

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Let us be sharing stories

Let us be sharing stories of people dying well. :- Doug.

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Who and what practices allow people to die well?

Who and what practices allow people to die well? :- Doug.

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Loving them as they die?

How then shall we live as we die? How then shall we love them as they die? :- Doug.

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No guarantees: only curiosity

No guarantees: only curiosity. :- Doug.

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Weaving paths through the woods

Our job as lawyers is to weave a path through the woods. There will always be woods, and there will always be paths needing weaving. :- Doug.

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You want the answer

Nelson Mandela started his biggest conversation, the one that ended Apartheid, while in solitary confinement. What conversation can we start, given our life condition? What higher purpose do we own that will get us beyond our walls? :- Doug.

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Our dog begs from us play

Our dog begs from us food and play and a walk, showing joy in being with us. Asking, playing: a way we too can give. :- Doug.

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Here might be our highest value

When our eyes meet— When our ears meet— Passes between us humanity & here might be our highest value :- Doug.

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asking for a bit of you

In conversation I am giving myself away asking for a bit of you leaving you free to make the gift. :- Doug.

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