Category Archives: Healing and Wholeness

It will take all of us

It will take all of us to love the whole of us. :- Doug.

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Within your family

Within your family celebrate your differences from these you find newness you create Within your family celebrate your likenesses you are more alike than different from these you can touch each other be touched Within your family blood & beyond … Continue reading

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I see families gathering

I see families gathering around their elders, caring for one another. :- Doug.

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A life of conversation looks like this:

A life of conversation looks like this: Grandchildren one on one and in circles. Family gathering. One on one with the family of humankind, whomever we meet out and about. Inviting something deeper in conferences. Spirit flowing and ebbing among … Continue reading

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Not yours, not hers

Not yours, not hers let me die my death Not hers, not yours let me do my work :- Doug.

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When I water my garden

When I water my garden, I am moving water around: from too deep for the plants to benefit, to the top where it percolates through their roots and back again. Flowing and returning like love. :- Doug.

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Gather our human family

We gather our human family to care for one another. :- Doug.

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What is the meaning of person as person?

What is the meaning of person as person? If we are an onion, when we peel down, who are we? Maybe we are the intersection of all others in our life. A meeting of fields. Einstein: All there is is … Continue reading

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Some say death

Some say death is an individual thing. I think otherwise—we cannot extirpate person from his or her ground. Family is a flexible idea, including all who profoundly touch and are touched by the person. :- Doug.

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A profound opportunity in death

A profound reason I invite folks to hear each other about approaching death is the opportunity that death gives us all to grow. I don’t want people robbed of their completion. :- Doug.

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The day comes & the day goes

The day comes & the day goes Is it a conduit for my life Or am I conduit for the day? :- Doug.

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Burden is a way of saying

Burden is a way of saying “Poor, poor me,” of asking for help to see one’s worth now. A person who seeks help still has worth, is still a person. :- Doug.

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There is only one

Share the heart There is only one We know, we know :- Doug.

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Traces of the whole

Traces of the whole in each part Too the other way round Work to see & skill In you & me & today our traces :- Doug.

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Sand our fingertips

The way we make this the best place to die is to sand our fingertips: to develop our sensitivity to people and their way of dying. Our compassion. We put ourselves in their shoes—won’t we get there someday, too? How … Continue reading

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an occasion worth celebrating

This is an occasion worth celebrating this drinking water over breakfast together :- Doug.

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Writing Wills, gathering wills

I write Wills and gather wills. :- Doug.

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