Category Archives: Healing and Wholeness

A third choice

Most people think that their only choices when facing a “nothing more we can do” declaration are 1. do everything; 2. Give up. A third choice is to make each day good, as good as we can. :- Doug.

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Why are conversations so often about surface things?

Why are our conversations so often about surface things? Are we afraid of disclosing things that really matter? :- Doug.

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It’s really reflection and heart work

It’s really reflection and heart work, even though on the surface we are talking about nursing homes, Medicaid, and end of life decisions. :- Doug.

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family and what matters

My work is with elders in crisis. My work is with reflection and heart, truth and beauty, family and what matters. People caring for people in a nursing home setting. In an end of life setting. Crisis does name nursing … Continue reading

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Blocks in conversation

Blocks in conversation will not be overcome by turning away. Seeing ourselves as listeners, then hearers, then explorers hold promise. :- Doug.

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What can we make of this news?

I will give you news you already know: Mom is going to die. Now, what can we make of the next months and years? :- Doug.

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Reflection is the work of a lifetime

Reflection is the work of a lifetime. :- Doug.

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Elders in crisis

Elders in crisis and I work on reflection and heart matters. :- Doug.

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Notice who all came

Notice that several of you have come together. What can that mean for you? :- Doug.

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What is this chapter of life about?

What is this chapter of life about? What good can you make of the nursing home? :- Doug.

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elders for truth, beauty, and goodness

I work with our elders for truth, beauty and goodness. :- Doug.

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Stop before you have said

Stop before you have said :- Doug.

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Can I accept compassion?

Can I accept compassion? :- Doug.

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The world was alive last night

The world was alive last night. I could not sleep. :- Doug.

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Hear me, O hear me!

Hear me, O hear me! Into agreement One minute in a circle Let us hear What each needs To have heard Love pain grief & laughter :- Doug.

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What are you working on?

What are you working on that gets your creativity going? :- Doug.

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What’s the one thing we have to do right?

What’s the one thing we have to do right? Let’s make a way. :- Doug.

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