Category Archives: Healing and Wholeness

Is it about how long you live

Is it about how long you live Or how much you live? How would you make your days Full of life? Some prefer quantity because they Can’t imagine How to fill days with life :- Doug.

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It is not right to give up

It is not right to give up We need to sustain Mother’s life But give up what? Beeping machines, blood draws at 2 am, Strangers changing her diaper? Holding a grandchild? Recognizing her husband? :- Doug.

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There comes a now

There comes a now For me to give up cure And work on healing. :- Doug.

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same line

Consider: polarities share the same line. :- Doug.

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stand in the way

Words can lead us up to the window and then they stand in the way. :- Doug.

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Then comes another

What results are ever final? Then comes another season. :- Doug.

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at last

Live well at last. :- Doug.

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We have seasons

We have seasons We pass through them Or they pass through us No matter which Now we are faced with this Non ease which will end us Compel us in snowy cold To remove our garment of skin and hair … Continue reading

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For others, for others

This dying might be your now To do your highest Work For others, for others Only in the For For you :- Doug.

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Live live your death

Live live your death Not merely comfort: Meaning :- Doug.

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Die a death fitting for your living

This chapter can reframe All the rest Die a death fitting for your living This is the Work Here your spirit shows through Now you teach now you learn Up you might go as you away This can be your … Continue reading

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We do not have courage to love

We do not have the courage to love. We do not know how to find the courage to love. You work in a nursing home. You are not a manager. You want to be caring to those you are given … Continue reading

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he-he

Every time you and your wife interact, you are a different you, she a different she-she and you a different he-he. :- Doug.

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Will I be relevant to me?

Will I be relevant to me? A year or two from now? A step or two down my road? :- Doug.

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Making the decision easier?

Is asking What would Dad want a way of making our decision easier? Yes, and that is not bad. But sometimes we need to think harder and more deeply for ourselves—and them. What is a good child to do? :- … Continue reading

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open and trade

What I open is my heart What I trade is my story :- Doug.

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From my tree stand

From my tree stand I photograph what goes on just below how you—we—enculturated enculturating treat those a few years ahead of us in line :- Doug.

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