Category Archives: Healing and Wholeness

our riddle

our riddle touch our gossamer strands thee me the all there is especially when one of us is held in the arms of dementia: our brain shriveling away from us :- Doug.

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You are really heard

You are really heard It really mattered That’s what humans do :- Doug.

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I was hurt

Perhaps approach this other person and say I was hurt. Be available. Be present. Offer and welcome. :- Doug.

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the person she or he was

She or he might not be the person she or he was, but she or he is not less than a person. :- Doug.

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Let us write lists of our dying

Let us write lists of our dying Things important even significant Dare to see the larger Maybe it will be poetry Our life as poem :- Doug.

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Come, be heard

Come, be heard :- Doug.

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Paddle in the direction the river is going

If we concentrate on what people with Alzheimer’s are missing, on how their “condition” is affecting both of us, we stir up things for them, cause consternation, guilt, inferiority feelings and feelings of things not going rightly. But if we … Continue reading

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Promise to hear

True invitation is a promise to hear. :- Doug.

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Be the love

Be the love you once thought ought belong here. :- Doug.

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You know is best

Do the thing You know is best The best of your self Beyond mere excellence That which is worth a life :- Doug.

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Lawyer: person to person practitioner

Lawyer: person to person practitioner :- Doug.

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presence

A lawyer’s stock in trade is presence. :- Doug.

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This is where you can

This is where you can let through your humanity—your kindness—the best self you ever thought you could be. :- Doug.

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I need a soft day

I need a soft day a day to ponder, reflect, to see the tracks of the larger :- Doug.

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What has us in common?

What has us in common? :- Doug.

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Life is in service

Life is in service. How are you in loving service this next moment? :- Doug.

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worse than not knowing what dying looks like

Worse than not knowing what dying looks like, we do not have any idea what living while dying can look like. :- Doug.

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