Category Archives: Healing and Wholeness

hospital-think!

You can do better than hospital-think! It is not right nor even salutary to concentrate 100% on disease; we need to concentrate on living. Escape the institution: help them elope! :- Doug.

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warehouses to hotbeds

Let’s move retirement facilities from being warehouses to hotbeds of meaning and purpose. :- Doug.

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Looking out over the valley

I was looking out over the valley from a different angle and could not see the mountain from here. :- Doug.

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like a rain shower

Standing in the woods earlier: it sounded like a rain shower. It was leaves falling! Comforting and spirit-lifting! :- Doug.

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More blessed than we

They are more blessed than we. They have offended us and have moved on. We are stuck in the hurt, the might have beens, the repair. We can choose to move on and be at peace. :- Doug.

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Even to this

We say everyone is connected. The way is via conversation. We cut off our relatedness when we choose not to converse. It’s not warm and cuddly—even most of the time—conversing can leave you feeling attacked or unworthy. Converse anyway. Open … Continue reading

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Ignored

Ignored is a person whose end of life wishes are also ignored is what no person deserves :- Doug.

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O what missing words!

O what missing words! All the better to converse with you! :- Doug.

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Only meet

Only meet. :- Doug.

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living well

What is your highest potential for living well? What would be your ideal day? :- Doug.

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peace

What do you find brings you peace…or whatever your life most desires? :- Doug.

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A family’s tragedy

Tell us about a family’s tragedy you experienced some years ago. :- Doug.

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Your blessing?

Who could use your blessing? :- Doug.

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What of your garden?

What of your garden gives you life? :- Doug.

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grow a tomato

Grow a tomato, grow a rose, see the lake, for now: before I die :- Doug.

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Aging = growing

Aging = growing :- Doug.

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Aging is no disease

Aging is no disease We older Can grow :- Doug.

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