Category Archives: Professional Caregivers

Suggest v shouting

The evidence is in; it says I believe: That to suggest a call to make Gets us further down the path Than shouting “Justice for the Dying!” That I do not know anyone’s final best And that I feel disappointed … Continue reading

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Rap across my knuckles

A rap across my knuckles Yet training wheels for the next times: What little I did in the face of What I did not do and The way her dying was deadened :- Doug.

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This lawyer in the fog

Often it is this lawyer in the fog first the course of study devise the special testing questions What was my role in this tragedy? Was it a tragedy? For whom? What did I fear? Why did I hold back? … Continue reading

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A Google lawyer

Are you Google knowing without knowing Are you a Google lawyer knowing answers and hows lively and responsive without touching All those years lived without living All those lives you have strummed without having the chords reverberate to your spine … Continue reading

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Looking glass room

As elder caring lawyers we are privileged witnesses. We also may find a profound responsibility to witness for our people. To mirror. To open. Maybe there is a different room over there on the other side of the looking glass. … Continue reading

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Condor from out of nowhere

But you have a much larger gift you can give, or at least offer. However it will cost you. It will be a condor from out of nowhere sinking its talons into you, carrying you away, over the abyss. You … Continue reading

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Fog in the valley, nothing more

You have the gift of having seen this long-term care thing in many guises and appearances. You can see long view over their case, over their needs, and the outlines of where this will come out the other side. You … Continue reading

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Can lawyers “love?”

Can lawyers use the word “love?” Can lawyers love their clients? :- Doug.

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The practice of people

The practice of law is the practice of people. The practice of law is the practice of conversing. :- Doug.

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Poems, like clients

Think of a favorite client, one with whom you really relate: first find the most deeply human part of your client, that part with which you connect. Then radiate that connection outward: what do you like, what draws you? Sometimes … Continue reading

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Meet them there

People share with us their profound times: we owe it to them to meet them there. We are yet human. :- Doug.

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A scalpel does not reach

Technical excellence is not enough. It is never enough. There is a place that excellence, our scalpel, does not reach, cannot cut. A place in each client. A place in us too. A place even our words cannot touch. A … Continue reading

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Steadiness in caring

When we might say “pressure,” let’s say “need for steadiness in caring.” It helps. :- Doug.

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My mind is broken

My mind is broken But my heart beats true :- Doug.

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Do healthy

Do healthy. Keep loving. Reflect. :- Doug.

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Getting you there

Getting you there :- Doug.

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Moving boulder up

Time is not the inventory; moving the boulder up the hill is. :- Doug.

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