Category Archives: Poetry

Hear me, O hear me!

Hear me, O hear me! Into agreement One minute in a circle Let us hear What each needs To have heard Love pain grief & laughter :- Doug.

Posted in Family, Grieving, Healing and Wholeness, Poetry | Leave a comment

mystery draws us

In conversation it is mystery not mastery that draws us together—shared spontaneity, creativity, synergy, tears, laughter—and ultimately intimate vulnerability. :- Doug.

Posted in Conversation, Family, Poetry | Leave a comment

though it produces no effects

Converse though it produces no effects Conversing is love expended The only needed reason to engage :- Doug.

Posted in Conversation, Family, Poetry | Leave a comment

Forgetting is a reminder

Forgetting is a reminder For me to be present Just now To larger To particular :- Doug.

Posted in Aging, Eldering, Healing and Wholeness, Poetry | Leave a comment

Future can rewrite past, soft brush

Healing reframes whole lives. Future can rewrite past, we can use a soft brush, a new color. :- Doug.

Posted in Eldering, Family, Healing and Wholeness, Poetry | Leave a comment

If I can’t remember the word

If I can’t remember the word, I will be still. Not for the word to come, but for what is more profound. :- Doug.

Posted in Aging, Eldering, Healing and Wholeness, Poetry | Leave a comment

Gaps in our speech

The gaps in our speech—even aphasias—can be invitations to come rest in silence…. What if precisely then we stopped to listen? Both of us? There is a rhythm to weather, the low pressure drawing wind out of the high pressure, … Continue reading

Posted in Aging, Eldering, Healing and Wholeness, Poetry | Leave a comment

Remembering how

Remembering how Inventing how At times that’s why we converse How to what? Die Be present for this one dying Be present for this one living :- Doug.

Posted in Caring, Conversation, Death and living while dying, Eldering, Poetry | Leave a comment

Yes, this is painful

Yes, this is painful Yes, this is hard Yes, we can do it :- Doug.

Posted in Caring, Family, Poetry | Leave a comment

Growth of a different sort?

As we get older our species Draws ever smaller circles Community becomes friends Becomes family—reversing Our course of younger years Growth of a different sort? Growth work that especially The dying and the demented do :- Doug.

Posted in Aging, Death and living while dying, Eldering, Family, Healing and Wholeness, Long-Term Care and nursing homes, Poetry | Leave a comment

“Do everything”

Let me say to you, sir or ma’am this thing that you don’t like the beeps and bustle all about the groans all within knowing not what we mean when on and on we say “do everything” the way the … Continue reading

Posted in Death and living while dying, Poetry | Leave a comment

Everything–O!

Today we have a place to Breathe for you Eat for you & Keep you safely Medicated —Everything you’d ever Want—O my! :- Doug.

Posted in Caring, Long-Term Care and nursing homes, Poetry | Leave a comment

Even that

Even that Let go :- Doug.

Posted in Caring, Eldering, Family, Grieving, Healing and Wholeness, Poetry | Leave a comment

How to love in a nursing home?

How to love in a nursing home? How do we bring life to Mom? A good day to Dad? :- Doug.

Posted in Caring, Family, Healing and Wholeness, Long-Term Care and nursing homes, Poetry | Leave a comment

going where we are helpless

Our best humanity is found in going where we are helpless. :- Doug.

Posted in Caring, Eldering, Poetry | Leave a comment

All the wind–

All the wind— It’s a great ventilating day All the clouds— The day is working us All the sun— The living day is generating, generating :- Doug.

Posted in Poetry | Leave a comment

Rhymes not needed, verse not needed:

Poetry means expressing the person, and the person is always in community, always a community. Poetry means the something more, the something larger. Poetry includes a rolling up of sleeves and setting to work. It means beauty, truth, goodness. It … Continue reading

Posted in Caring, Poetry | Leave a comment