Category Archives: Poetry

enormity and immediacy

Looking out the window I got a sense of the enormity and immediacy that is the all there is. :- Doug.

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It’s OK

It’s OK I don’t know if it’s OK I love you Calming you Calming me It’s OK As someone left After you Accompanying Only so far Do I say it For me? It’s OK :- Doug.

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uncomfortable

Led to the edge Take the conversation to where I’m uncomfortable :- Doug.

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As my grandchildren mature

As my grandchildren mature my stories need to change to deepen :- Doug.

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You are afraid

You are afraid of opening yourself to grief, suffering, loss, to all the negative our world can make: because all is parcel of all these include living’s joy and intensity go and open anyway :- Doug.

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We have seasons

We have seasons We pass through them Or they pass through us No matter which Now we are faced with this Non ease which will end us Compel us in snowy cold To remove our garment of skin and hair … Continue reading

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Brides, Babies, and Bills

Brides, Babies, and Bills Take the wild out Of the young man Serve Us :- Doug.

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You only cook special things

You only cook special things for other people I make you things each day and give up some things I love Ahh yes, the everyday! :- Doug.

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For others, for others

This dying might be your now To do your highest Work For others, for others Only in the For For you :- Doug.

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Live live your death

Live live your death Not merely comfort: Meaning :- Doug.

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Die a death fitting for your living

This chapter can reframe All the rest Die a death fitting for your living This is the Work Here your spirit shows through Now you teach now you learn Up you might go as you away This can be your … Continue reading

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he-he

Every time you and your wife interact, you are a different you, she a different she-she and you a different he-he. :- Doug.

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Will I be relevant to me?

Will I be relevant to me? A year or two from now? A step or two down my road? :- Doug.

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open and trade

What I open is my heart What I trade is my story :- Doug.

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From my tree stand

From my tree stand I photograph what goes on just below how you—we—enculturated enculturating treat those a few years ahead of us in line :- Doug.

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Now I don’t matter

Now I don’t matter I don’t care I don’t know the difference Your actions speak Even in Now My individuality matters I am not a thing Grist for your mill A task in your list I am A person Who … Continue reading

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Elderly is a dismissal;

Elderly is a dismissal; Elder is a term of respect, reverence, veneration :- Doug.

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