Category Archives: Poetry

Probate is a door

Probate is less a box To hold things away for a time & more a door That opens and clears the way :- Doug.

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She gave up

She gave up a career to care for her mother, declining but all she gave away was ambition to get the giving :- Doug.

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Two gardens

Two gardens we are given to tend The one within our fence The one without, embracing it :- Doug.

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Can we do better?

Ask again Can we Do better? :- Doug.

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The summer’s come on so suddenly

The summer’s come on so suddenly & now is nearly gone the seasons come round so quickly they leave my head spinning The older I get the faster spins the reel of remaining tape Yet if we look we may … Continue reading

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Dragonflies

The sun and the wind & the dragonflies are one and sitting among all these you and I with them are one hawk wheeling above dew glittering cars with pavement singing are one tree frogs not heard but deafening remind … Continue reading

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finally finding a way

I am finally finding a way to bring together my law work and my poetry work. :- Doug.

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Where’s the needle, where’s the thread?

When Mom’s mind begins to crack and shrivel We want to go retrieve the pieces From our remembered store Even though we know There’s no thread to stitch Memory to flesh :- Doug.

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Aswim

Aswim in the ocean of Galaxies & universes is Our particular world of Little paychecks & big super stores & Momma’s in the nursing home :- Doug.

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Your grief-cursor

What would you write With your grief-cursor? What is the rhythm What the rhyme Of your father’s shrinking mind And future? Where the wholeness Can you help—or allow—the Circle to close This breach that feels so heavy, today? :- Doug.

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Common

Touch a hand hear a pain hug a child make love make a Will drink hot chocolate with a friend worship To die is very common :- Doug.

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Expectancy?

Do you have a life expectancy Or an expectancy of life? :- Doug.

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Mom’s flower bed

Mom’s flower bed Won’t get tended this year Dad is lost Sis will plant the annuals & I will weed Dad is lost & needs our help Our children will be calling us & life does tug Dad is becoming … Continue reading

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Joy of burden

In your old age Give your children and grandchildren The joy of the burden of you :- Doug.

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If meaning in life/is direction of days

If meaning in life is direction of days we can be here now for destination is not assured but each now we choose our heading We think the person with Alzheimer’s slips away from us sadly but could he, could … Continue reading

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Living life alone

How does one live life, alone, Without another to share? How does one await death? And yet, awaiting death Is not the object of our years, But living the moments, Giving the moments. One must find, Or let one’s self … Continue reading

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Larger than the law

The world is larger than the law Than medicine and finance all These speak not or too seldom of— The widower’s lostness and having no one to call home Eight year olds chasing away from casket White chickens and red … Continue reading

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