Category Archives: Poetry

This baby giggles

This baby giggles in your arms: sacred moment that cherishes you :- Doug.

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A brilliant cardinal drops

A brilliant cardinal drops out of the tree flies straight away from me to light a hundred yards away and we our brightness carry to distant needs and close :- Doug.

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It’s the challenge

It’s the challenge which makes family difficult & games & life & love fun :- Doug.

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Fade into all your playmates

Give your self Every day To those with whom you play To those you’d invite to play To the playing Then when you’re having most fun Some day You’ll be lucky enough To fade into all your playmates :- Doug.

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When I die

When I die To myself Free, I fly Dying before I die Flying before I fly Into the wind, leap! :- Doug.

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My grandmother plaited her hair

My grandmother plaited her hair Never the same, always beauty Now I live among complex adaptive structures :- Doug.

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“Rodeo chicken”

“Rodeo chicken” the sign read Don’t this just get your mind workin’? “If you can get the saddle on ’em —nothin’ fer greenhorns to try— yer in fer a ride!” “Git along, little chickie” “Barrel race on a chicken— now … Continue reading

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The ratio of what we didn’t

We assess our life’s value by the ratio of what we attempt to what we didn’t It is infinitely less important what we achieve :- Doug.

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Draw larger circles

Draw larger circles. :- Doug.

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and yet there is this necessity….

Friends– A quote you may enjoy: We may have no wish to grow up, to grow old, to become the senior citizens, the elders of the tribe, and yet there is this law that bears us forward continuously in time. … Continue reading

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Going around in circles

Going around in circles The wheel progresses :- Doug.

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The wheel turns

The wheel turns The seasons, the generations, our lives Rhythms, yes But as the wheel comes around A tune is played, a story told The miles are traversed To a new road the wheel turns :- Doug.

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A journey we make together

A journey we make together Dad is dying The dialysis is not doing any good Dad is fighting dying but getting tired Mom and daughter try to ask “the question” Maybe we can get the doctor To start the conversation … Continue reading

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The day the tulip tree died

The day the tulip tree died I heard no sound I looked and it was down It kindly avoided with its 90 feet Taking down anything I’d put up Another day will hold the work of clearing For this day … Continue reading

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in the tears?

Is life happiest in the tears? :- Doug.

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Holding hands

Holding hands A glance exchanged Hugging A walk together in the autumn leaves A touch Humming along in a group with an old song Playing tic-tac-toe Many the ways we converse :- Doug.

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Help me speak from my dementia

Help me speak from my dementia Since I have trouble thinking But I feel, I see, I exist I want to love you And be respected Because I am, still I remember, I remember The songs, the dances, The babies … Continue reading

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