Category Archives: Family

You have no right that

You have no right that someone agree with you You have an obligation Moreover to hear him or her :- Doug.

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Why are conversations so often about surface things?

Why are our conversations so often about surface things? Are we afraid of disclosing things that really matter? :- Doug.

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It’s really reflection and heart work

It’s really reflection and heart work, even though on the surface we are talking about nursing homes, Medicaid, and end of life decisions. :- Doug.

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family and what matters

My work is with elders in crisis. My work is with reflection and heart, truth and beauty, family and what matters. People caring for people in a nursing home setting. In an end of life setting. Crisis does name nursing … Continue reading

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Blocks in conversation

Blocks in conversation will not be overcome by turning away. Seeing ourselves as listeners, then hearers, then explorers hold promise. :- Doug.

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What can we make of this news?

I will give you news you already know: Mom is going to die. Now, what can we make of the next months and years? :- Doug.

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Elders in crisis

Elders in crisis and I work on reflection and heart matters. :- Doug.

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Notice who all came

Notice that several of you have come together. What can that mean for you? :- Doug.

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This is aspirational

This is aspirational. Involves families and long-term care. :- Doug.

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sometimes feels like magic:

What we do sometimes feels to me like magic: we can get Dad the care he needs in the nursing home; we can see that Mom is able to stay in her home; and we can help gather the family. … Continue reading

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Stop before you have said

Stop before you have said :- Doug.

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Can I accept compassion?

Can I accept compassion? :- Doug.

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Hear me, O hear me!

Hear me, O hear me! Into agreement One minute in a circle Let us hear What each needs To have heard Love pain grief & laughter :- Doug.

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What is the possible story?

What is the possible story of this people? :- Doug.

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mystery draws us

In conversation it is mystery not mastery that draws us together—shared spontaneity, creativity, synergy, tears, laughter—and ultimately intimate vulnerability. :- Doug.

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though it produces no effects

Converse though it produces no effects Conversing is love expended The only needed reason to engage :- Doug.

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We can, we must

We can, we must. We are the only ones we’ve got. :- Doug.

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