Category Archives: Eldering

elders elder

I help elders elder. :- Doug.

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hospitable for elders

My work is making the world more hospitable for elders. :- Doug.

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Elders growing worth

Elders are not partial nor disabled but validly creative, growing  worth and abilities new. :- Doug.

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Lasting

A Good Will is an opening for an elder to make last gifts lasting. :- Doug.

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Elders are resource-full

Elders are not a problem, do not need solving. Elders are resource-full, growing, working for the good of the human tribe. :- Doug.

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invest in you

We invest in you pieces of our lives :- Doug.

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What you say to your grandchildren matters

What you say to your grandchildren matters. What message do you have for each? What you say does not matter. For each of them who are you? :- Doug.

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What life give your grandson?

What kind of life would you give your grandson? What sort of home for your granddaughter? What career, what passions? What in them would you feed? :- Doug.

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I met a man yesterday….

I met a man yesterday who in the twentieth year of his retirement, despite, maybe because of, physical disabilities, reads a book a day. His mind is sharp, his handshake firm, and he smiles a lot at a world he … Continue reading

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How do we make this a better place for our elders? Converse! Engage.

How do we make this a better place for our elders? Converse! Engage. :- Doug.

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Very common

To die is very common: everyone does it. We do not have to fret over it: it will come as it comes and we have only a little say. But the say we have might be important to those around … Continue reading

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We are not broken

Of course people come to us lawyers with problems, but they do not want to be here. I want to turn the coin over and look at what can we do to make wholeness. Let’s reel in toward wholeness, let’s … Continue reading

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Living life alone

How does one live life, alone, Without another to share? How does one await death? And yet, awaiting death Is not the object of our years, But living the moments, Giving the moments. One must find, Or let one’s self … Continue reading

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Healing in nursing homes

What is healing in the nursing home? What is whole-making for an elder? :- Doug.

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“It really is so simple and easy to be close in Spirit”

A friend of mine, Mikk Sarv, from Estonia, while early in his own most personal grieving work, wrote “It is really so simple and easy to be close in Spirit.” How have you experienced this? I see it is about … Continue reading

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How could it help…?

How could it help to get families engaged with their elders? :- Doug.

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