Category Archives: Eldering

For the good of our grandchildren?

What can we be—and do–for the good of our grandchildren, for seven generations? :- Doug.

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Within your family

Within your family celebrate your differences from these you find newness you create Within your family celebrate your likenesses you are more alike than different from these you can touch each other be touched Within your family blood & beyond … Continue reading

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A life of conversation looks like this:

A life of conversation looks like this: Grandchildren one on one and in circles. Family gathering. One on one with the family of humankind, whomever we meet out and about. Inviting something deeper in conferences. Spirit flowing and ebbing among … Continue reading

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fold in some gratitude

To smooth the edges of anger fold in some gratitude for anything at all :- Doug.

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Not right by design

Not right by design It takes some fiddling To arrive not at perfection Better :- Doug.

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Journey of life

The journey of life Here and there By quantum leaps :- Doug.

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Not yours, not hers

Not yours, not hers let me die my death Not hers, not yours let me do my work :- Doug.

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When I water my garden

When I water my garden, I am moving water around: from too deep for the plants to benefit, to the top where it percolates through their roots and back again. Flowing and returning like love. :- Doug.

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Gather our human family

We gather our human family to care for one another. :- Doug.

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What is the meaning of person as person?

What is the meaning of person as person? If we are an onion, when we peel down, who are we? Maybe we are the intersection of all others in our life. A meeting of fields. Einstein: All there is is … Continue reading

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The day comes & the day goes

The day comes & the day goes Is it a conduit for my life Or am I conduit for the day? :- Doug.

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Are you yet growing?

Dying can have vim—value, importance, and meaning. :- Doug.

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What does it mean to have not wisdom?

To my friends in the wisdom class: At 66 years of age What does it mean to not have wisdom? To have not depth? At what age does it arrive? Can anyone teach me How to find it? :- Doug.

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After paper is shreds & pen is broken

After years of writing —contracts, letters, Wills, poems— I find I have been forming myself working on what remains after paper is shreds & pen is broken :- Doug.

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To squeeze out a single drop

To squeeze out a single drop of your life’s essence is your highest gift to the world :- Doug.

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All is working as it should

All is working as it should. :- Doug.

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Approach with happiness

Approach with happiness. :- Doug.

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