Category Archives: Eldering

No specific star

Grands cannot control the future, so they best not have a set goal for how it will look. That does not mean give in, rather have direction only: human- and person-centered; or playful; or conversing; or east toward the morning … Continue reading

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As eyesight weakens

As eyesight weakens farsight grows. :- Doug.

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Who grandchildren need

I believe grands are who grandchildren need because we see further and more completely. :- Doug.

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Grands fun

Come meet other grands and see what fun and good we can make for the grandchildren. :- Doug.

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silver not gold

Wisdom is silver not gold. No need to carry such a heavy load. :- Doug.

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Greying greens our world

Greying greens our world. :- Doug.

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Advice doesn’t work

How do you touch the life of someone’s grandchild? Is it different for a babe, a teen, a parent? Giving advice doesn’t work; playfulness does. :- Doug.

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colors, aromas, flavors

I don’t tell you what your long view should be about. I share mine, knowing that I am missing 99.9% of the colors, aromas, flavors, touches, notes, movements, spirits. :- Doug.

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long view

Do you put your long view forefront? :- Doug.

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long skipping

I come from a long skipping line of elders. :- Doug.

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fits together

You can begin to see how it all fits together. Given this viewpoint, what’s your responsibility to the grandchildren? :- Doug.

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Did you see?

Do you see what just happened? How it came about? Why it came about? How far down do you drill to get the whole picture so you can do something effective? :- Doug.

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Visible grandchildren

An elder finds it natural to ask “How does what I do affect the grandchildren, the community?” Consequences ripple. They become visible. Choices tend to become visible. :- Doug.

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Grandchildren of humanity

Elders have a chance higher than other folks of seeing the purposes of humanity. If we can then communicate these the grandchildren of humanity have a higher chance of going in better directions. :- Doug.

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Still grand!

Even if we had no children we can still be grand. :- Doug.

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A whale word

Eldering is a whale word. People cannot digest it at one take. Let’s go bite by bite. :- Doug.

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Playfulness love

Eldering is a spiritual practice based in playfulness—that is, love. :- Doug.

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