Category Archives: Eldering

Larger sense of a life

Reminiscing makes larger sense of a life. :- Doug.

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A different eldering

For the Grandchildren: a different eldering. :- Doug.

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The old ways

Look to the old ways not because they are old because they give a wider view :- Doug.

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Raise up elders

Raise up elders from among the grandchildren. :- Doug.

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Wounds healing you?

Elder, what are the wounds, those that have healed, those that are still healing…your life? What are the profoundest injuries that now are part of your essence? What depths do they help you bring to the world? :- Doug.

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Tell me grandchild

Tell me grandchild, what have you learned? It may be, it may be. :- Doug.

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“Harvesting” elders

Might we design an alternative “economy” where elders who are already segregated are also “harvested” for “wealth” for the community? Attend the words: “household allotment;” “a festive time of gathering, ripeness and fullness;” and “happiness, well-being, whole, sound.” What is … Continue reading

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Secret we keep

Sex is the secret adults keep from children What is the secret elders keep from adults Something invisible to those still unripe? :- Doug.

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Sex brought death

Sex brought death; gardens brought old people. :- Doug.

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Better at puzzles

Who’s better at puzzles: children, adults, elders? Elders are themselves a puzzle: their very existence asks What now? More tellingly, What next? :- Doug.

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To whom contribute?

We have added 30 years; we have scattered our adult children: to whom will we contribute and what? :- Doug.

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Too sick and weak

We were hunter-gatherers following the seasons and food. So we left behind those too sick and weak to keep up. We became farmers, had much food and shelter. So we took care for these. Now we are mobile, scattered. So…what? … Continue reading

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Families scatter

Hunter-gatherers lose their elders when they can no longer keep up with the moving band. Agrarian communities gain elders by staying put. They have supplies of food and existing shelter, so longevity is allowed extension. Now our families scatter on … Continue reading

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Who then?

If the body is healthy, the soul is expanding, and we have an extra 30 years, who then? :- Doug.

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Eldering never bloomed

Eldering might never have bloomed—yet. With our rapidly expanding life spans, we are now given an opening and necessity to invent our role. :- Doug.

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Wrap stories in stories

Let us learn ways to wrap stories in stories to sneak lessons deep inside lessons :- Doug.

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Caring defines humans

Caring for one another is what defines us as humans, what opens up our worlds. :- Doug.

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