Category Archives: Conversation

Echoing whispers

Can we communicate with the 300 year grandchildren-elders, back and forth? Who knows if we can, so let’s try! Write letters, record stories and messages. Send thoughts. Pretend it can be. Play with it! If our thought to them left … Continue reading

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End of Life Conversations: Have them for yourselves

If you are going to help people with these conversations, you need to have them for yourselves. Note I did not say by yourselves. You need to have them with your loved ones; and for them. For it is a … Continue reading

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Send kindly thoughts

Send kindly thoughts open a kindly conversation :- Doug.

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Best conversations with grandchildren-elders

What are the conversations we would best have with the grandchildren-elders of 300 years in the future? :- Doug.

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Unity and diversity

The elder begins to glimpse the unity and diversity of life, and sees both as integral. Unity is of youth’s idealism, diversity of middling’s troubles and defeats, integrality of eldering’s completions. :- Doug.

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Development does not stop

For me, development does not stop with the physical, mental, cognitive, emotional, and psychological. It needs also to go to spirit and intimacy—meeting, poetry, and conversation. :- Doug.

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The one behind it

If you have the conversation, you can have the conversation behind it. :- Doug.

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Afraid of one another

A major issue of our time is we are afraid of one another. Too afraid to open. :- Doug.

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You enlarge

Converse and the meaning of you may enlarge. :- Doug.

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Why personify death?

Why do we want to personify death? To make of it a friend or foe? To understand? To become intimate? To soften? :- Doug.

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Getting intimate with death

I want to get more intimate with my death: it might help me become more intimate with others. It might help me take me less seriously and more lightly. :- Doug.

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Come sit with us

Come sit with us. :- Doug.

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Centuries connect us

I am seeing some ways to try connecting across the centuries. The first thing is to not go across the centuries, seeing them as a barrier or a long jump, but perhaps a bridge, a wormhole, a field, a commune-ication … Continue reading

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Not time travel

Connecting across 300 years is not time travel: it is here and now. :- Doug.

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A world in a grain of sand

To see a world in a grain of sand And a heaven in a wild flower Converse :- Doug.

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to roll around in our mouths

This might be where my earliest memory finds a current parallel: a fascination with conversation. It is wafting up from beneath, a heaven ahead that we wanted to roll around in our mouths, to take in, assimilate, be, speak forth. … Continue reading

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Conversings all the way down

Conversing is intimacy, is touching the precious grain and flower, being held. It is the depth of the deep, it is conversings all the way down. :- Doug.

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