Category Archives: Caring

Creative responsibility

Not right by design It takes some fiddling To arrive not at perfection Better :- Doug.

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Not right by design

Not right by design It takes some fiddling To arrive not at perfection Better :- Doug.

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When I water my garden

When I water my garden, I am moving water around: from too deep for the plants to benefit, to the top where it percolates through their roots and back again. Flowing and returning like love. :- Doug.

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Gather our human family

We gather our human family to care for one another. :- Doug.

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I don’t understand “being a burden”

I don’t understand what “being a burden” means. Please tell me what you imagine it means. What you have seen, felt, and heard? :- Doug.

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There is only one

Share the heart There is only one We know, we know :- Doug.

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Writing Wills, gathering wills

I write Wills and gather wills. :- Doug.

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The resources we already have

Family, relations, community, needs—let us pull together the resources we already have. :- Doug.

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How do we wish to be cared for with a chronic disease?

How do we wish to be cared for as we live with a chronic disease—or several—that few are equipped to deal with? :- Doug.

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All is working as it should

All is working as it should. :- Doug.

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Radical conversing heals

End of life conversing is vitally important to me because radical conversing heals. Because radical hearing heals. :- Doug.

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Cancer and gentle loving metaphors

There are more gentle and loving frames within which to set our approach to any cancer test results seeming negative. Military and war metaphors, fighting and vanquishing, are too harsh for a part of a loved one’s body. When our … Continue reading

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The profession of people meeting well:

In the profession of people meeting well: I am exactly where I need to be. :- Doug.

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Less a technician am I than lover & hearer & fan

Less a technician am I than lover & hearer & fan. :- Doug.

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Caring is an attitude of my heart

Caring is an attitude of my heart; care is a commercial transaction. :- Doug.

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Parents and children take care for one another

We all help parents and children take care for one another. :- Doug.

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Why free of pain and mentally present?

Why would you want to be free of pain and mentally present in your last days? Because otherwise you could be prevented from doing something meaningful to you. :- Doug.

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