Category Archives: Caring

the person she or he was

She or he might not be the person she or he was, but she or he is not less than a person. :- Doug.

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Come, be heard

Come, be heard :- Doug.

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the best that should happen now?

What is the best that should happen now? Why don’t you see to it? :- Doug.

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Paddle in the direction the river is going

If we concentrate on what people with Alzheimer’s are missing, on how their “condition” is affecting both of us, we stir up things for them, cause consternation, guilt, inferiority feelings and feelings of things not going rightly. But if we … Continue reading

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Is there life after nursing home?

Is there life after nursing home? We can make that life, if we have the gumption. We can get out all the books and articles about helping children learn to read and to become independent, and see what makes sense. … Continue reading

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Promise to hear

True invitation is a promise to hear. :- Doug.

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Be the love

Be the love you once thought ought belong here. :- Doug.

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is to love

To be present is to love :- Doug.

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three classical professions

Lawyer is one of the three classical between professions: this person goes between human and humanity. :- Doug.

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Lawyer: person to person practitioner

Lawyer: person to person practitioner :- Doug.

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presence

A lawyer’s stock in trade is presence. :- Doug.

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This is where you can

This is where you can let through your humanity—your kindness—the best self you ever thought you could be. :- Doug.

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Ear I have found

Ear I have found the heart of law. :- Doug.

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How present?

How can I be present to you? :- Doug.

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to converse deeply

I only have enough time to converse deeply. :- Doug.

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only enough time for

I only have enough time for long conversation. :- Doug.

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I have no time for short conversation

Remember to live while you’re dying. Memento vivere dum mori. :- Doug.

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