Category Archives: Caring

Deeper if I let them

People will go deeper if I let them, if for instance I do not step on their lines. :- Doug.

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Don’t be afraid

Don’t be afraid. Other people are not apart from you. They are a part of you. We are in profound territory. :- Doug.

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the further we advance

The further we advance into persons the more activity (conversation) among them we discover. The closer we look the more restless and dynamic the picture. People cannot be separated from their correlations. The more we confine them (such as in … Continue reading

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complex tissues of relationships

(Old) people are not so much individuals as complex tissues of relationships reaching outward to other relationships, overlapping, combining, weaving. :- Doug.

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Years not of decline but of growth

These are years not of decline but of growth. Growth can be in reflection, spirit, work on memories, with hands, observation, and a panorama of things. :- Doug.

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Be clear of one thing:

Be clear of one thing: open to one another. This is love. :- Doug.

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I must remember I don’t know what I don’t know

I must remember I don’t know what I don’t know. :- Doug.

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When words depart

When words depart and stay away we will converse —then—in acts of love :- Doug.

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No, I’m not having fun

No, I’m not having fun in my work I’m having love an exchange with one another of words, wonder, and engagement :- Doug.

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Gentle, life-generating

It is important to find essence, the part of life that is gentle, life-generating. So much of what we chase—money, clothing, houses, cars, respect, fame—melt away in the face of loving-kindness, comfort, and death. What is in these is essence … Continue reading

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quintessential loving

Conversing is quintessential loving. :- Doug.

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The mystical things I do

The mystical things I do Are those of Kindness, caring, and loving :- Doug.

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Found moments

Kairos: Found moments :- Doug.

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No time at all

Kairos is no time, no time at all. You might say it is glow time, flow time, grow time, whoa time, bestow time. The apropos and ripe time to really know someone: know time. :- Doug.

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“Simply love them, love them, love them”

“Simply love them, love them, love them”—from Camelot. This applies to elders and the old old as well. :- Doug.

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Not going on?

What in the name of conversing is not going on here? :- Doug.

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Moment to be kind

Kairos: an opportune moment to be kind. :- Doug.

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