Category Archives: Aging

Life, Death, and What Really Matters

Hi– Here is a great article on what dying people can teach us: http://noetic.org/noetic/issue-eighteen-january/life-death-and-what-really-matters/ From the article: “Their message is actually simple: focus only on the things that are most important while there is still time to make a difference.” … Continue reading

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What we shouldn’t tell our grandchildren

We shouldn’t tell our grandchildren that they have a lifetime in front of them. Don’t sugar coat. They have a few short years and had better choose wisely and get to work quickly and effectively. :- Doug.

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Still living at your age?

We are still living at this age not because there is something for us to do; rather there is to love more opportunity given us. :- Doug.

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Prognosis: if you knew….

Friends– “For an 85 year old patient, with a life expectancy of six years, a frank discussion of prognosis might result in “a significant reordering of health priorities,” said Alexander K. Smith. “For example, maintaining mobility, putting financial affairs in … Continue reading

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Want more?

In Senior Living Environments, of what do we want more? What is being done well? :- Doug.

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News: MetLife Study of Elder Financial Abuse

Here is an updated study: http://www.metlife.com/mmi/research/elder-financial-abuse.html :- Doug.

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Walking through doors makes us forget

Hi– A new Notre Dame study shows why walking through doorways makes us forget: http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/237974.php :- Doug.

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Imprisoning people with Alzheimer’s

The face of disability is changing and it is us. We are becoming an aging society and our living longer has revealed to us new accouterments of aging in the form of various dementias, most of which are physical. Our … Continue reading

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Not old enough to be 65!

I’m not old enough to be 65—nor do I intend to be. :- Doug.

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Feeling old is optional

Feeling old is optional for you, elder of fuller life :- Doug.

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Grandparent to grandchild questions

Grandparent to grandchild questions: —What do you think the birds see when they look down at us? —What do the trees see? —What does your angel think about you? :- Doug.

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Shh. Yes, you are fragile

Shh. Yes, you are fragile No, that is not all right But you are as all of us & together & alone We get to where we can Share this fragility There is strength here too Among us :- Doug.

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20 Common Nursing Home Problems

The National Senior Citizens Law Center has just republished its eye-opening guide. A single free copy can be downloaded here: http://www.nsclc.org/publications/manuals/manual.2006-06-08.3692004924 For instance, did you know: –A relative does not have to sign as responsible for the elder’s nursing home … Continue reading

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The summer’s come on so suddenly

The summer’s come on so suddenly & now is nearly gone the seasons come round so quickly they leave my head spinning The older I get the faster spins the reel of remaining tape Yet if we look we may … Continue reading

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New taxes on the fragile elderly?

No new taxes—on whom? You say we are taxed enough already; you will stand for no new taxes. But the reduction of help to the fragile elderly, or the helpless infant, or others like them who have no where else … Continue reading

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The works of aging

Meaning, identity, loss, transcendence, despair, laughter, tears, undone, undoing, teaching, spirit, leaving, review, learning: these are some of the works of aging. Here is hope in dying. The specific hope will of course be different for each of us and … Continue reading

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Done the impossible!

After years of toil and worry we have finally done the impossible: we have changed something from black to white: our hair! :- Doug.

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