Category Archives: Aging

our comfort

Disorientation may be our comfort. :- Doug.

Posted in Aging, Alzheimer's and other dementias, Eldering, Poetry | Leave a comment

Retire?

Retire? I have too much to do! :- Doug.

Posted in Aging, Eldering | Leave a comment

the person she or he was

She or he might not be the person she or he was, but she or he is not less than a person. :- Doug.

Posted in Aging, Caring, Conversation, Family, Healing and Wholeness, Poetry | Leave a comment

This is where you can

This is where you can let through your humanity—your kindness—the best self you ever thought you could be. :- Doug.

Posted in Aging, Caring, Conversation, Death and living while dying, Dreams, Eldering, Family, Healing and Wholeness, Long-Term Care and nursing homes, Poetry | Leave a comment

at last

Live well at last. :- Doug.

Posted in Aging, Death and living while dying, Eldering, Healing and Wholeness | Leave a comment

We have seasons

We have seasons We pass through them Or they pass through us No matter which Now we are faced with this Non ease which will end us Compel us in snowy cold To remove our garment of skin and hair … Continue reading

Posted in Aging, Conversation, Death and living while dying, Eldering, Family, Healing and Wholeness, Poetry | Leave a comment

From my tree stand

From my tree stand I photograph what goes on just below how you—we—enculturated enculturating treat those a few years ahead of us in line :- Doug.

Posted in Aging, Eldering, Healing and Wholeness, Poetry | Leave a comment

Now I don’t matter

Now I don’t matter I don’t care I don’t know the difference Your actions speak Even in Now My individuality matters I am not a thing Grist for your mill A task in your list I am A person Who … Continue reading

Posted in Aging, Caring, Eldering, Family, Healing and Wholeness, Poetry | Leave a comment

Elderly is a dismissal;

Elderly is a dismissal; Elder is a term of respect, reverence, veneration :- Doug.

Posted in Aging, Eldering, Healing and Wholeness, Poetry | Leave a comment

At what age?

At what age do we become ineligible to be seen and treated as a person? :- Doug.

Posted in Aging, Healing and Wholeness | Leave a comment

Life will inevitably advance

Life will inevitably advance How to you want to live Then? :- Doug.

Posted in Aging, Eldering, Healing and Wholeness | Leave a comment

someday you will not be allowed

Someday you will not be allowed to decide find out now decide now for when :- Doug.

Posted in Aging, Conversation, Death and living while dying, Emergency/Crisis Medical | Leave a comment

Invitation

I tend toward anger when my heart is not received. Strange! I should tend toward compassion. Compassion for the other. Compassion for my own soul wanting to feel and express anger over the hurt. It is OK to fight, I … Continue reading

Posted in Aging, Caring, Conversation, Eldering, Family, Healing and Wholeness, Poetry | Leave a comment

compare

Do not compare yourself with another. :- Doug.

Posted in Aging, Eldering, Healing and Wholeness | Leave a comment

favorite courting music?

What was your favorite kind of music when you were courting? :- Doug.

Posted in Aging, Eldering, Healing and Wholeness | Leave a comment

Lively longer

Lively longer: let’s stay! :- Doug.

Posted in Aging, Eldering | Leave a comment

Alive inside Alzheimer’s

Started watching a video last night called “Alive Inside.” It is about music and memory, using music on ipods to awaken folks who have turned inside with dementia and Alzheimer’s. Some top people are interviewed and some science is shared, … Continue reading

Posted in Aging, Caring, Eldering, Healing and Wholeness, Long-Term Care and nursing homes | Leave a comment