Category Archives: Aging

A scowl

Favor over the scowl the cowl of elder-hood. :- Doug.

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Complaining mode

Even if we have our eyes on eldering, we need to watch that we don’t move more than necessary to complaining mode. Just how much complaining is really necessary or useful? :- Doug.

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Gritching grumps

We can choose to be gritching grumps in old age, the same as we chose to be disagreeable and disparaging in our adult years, or we can choose to make them joy-filled and engaged in life and what’s possible next. … Continue reading

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perhaps even these

The stroke, the broken hip, the dementia: perhaps even these all things work together for good for those who love life. :- Doug.

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Menu for the ages of aging:

Menu of the ages of aging: Crabby → Crappy Playing → A time to not remember Eldering → Grace Which are you choosing? :- Doug.

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What’s your trajectory?

What’s your trajectory? :- Doug.

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The marrow of your life?

What is the marrow of your life? The root from which everything grows? The trajectory of your path so far? :- Doug.

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Can you map your life?

In what ever-deepening course can you map your life? What is the map of your wandering territory? :- Doug.

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Scary choice?

You stand at a threshold. Age might bring you here to the border of elderhood. Or not. There is an element of choice. Scary, yes? :- Doug.

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Merely the hem

Age is merely the hem of elderhood. :- Doug.

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Beautiful poetry or major

As the difference between beautiful poetry and major poetry is a felt change of consciousness, so the difference between the aging and the eldering. :- Doug.

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O that when younger

O that when younger I had seen what I now can see! (Of what use would it have been to me then?) :- Doug.

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Good pain?

There is much pain in this room. For what good is this pain? :- Doug.

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Make room?

For what might the fading of our bodies and brains make room? :- Doug.

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Boons of age?

What do we fear of age? What can be its boons? :- Doug.

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Gently awaken

Gently awaken. :- Doug.

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some accept

Eldering is threshold some accept to cross transcending middling projects confronting larger sweeping :- Doug.

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