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It’s real

It’s real when skill, strength, competence you start to lose :- Doug.

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Specific wrestling

It has to be specific, this eldering, yes? We need to meet in a particular place-time, we need to meet actual persons. We will not agree on everything important: we must wrestle. :- Doug.

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Gather yourself

We study how things have gone, we get a long view, we move beyond “Be nice, be yourself.” We no longer know who our self is. We don’t know what nice is. It will be diversity, wrestling. Show up, pay … Continue reading

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Even a message?

Ought we even have a message, or is eldering more subtle, more profound than that? :- Doug.

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Laps all the way down

How differently would you live if it were laps all the way down? :- Doug.

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Held in their laps

Maybe we’re not standing on the ancestors’ shoulders rather held in their laps :- Doug.

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We will again shake hands

These days find: the tender, kind, real part of the ones you meet; open this part in yourself to yourself and them: in our human core, adjectival as we are, we turn one another in an unfinished dance. We will … Continue reading

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Non in-person world

Now we have a non in-person world. Which means? We need to be more one on one: more personal. :- Doug.

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Call up your grandchildren

Call up your grandchildren, tell them a story. Tell them about a mistake or failure in your life. Ask them nothing. :- Doug.

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That old time rhythm

When you catch that old time rhythm When you hear a bit of rhyme Now’s the time for your practice of poetry :- Doug.

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Will I like dying?

A good death? Will I like death? Can anybody ever like dying? Many in great pain long for the quiet of death, the rest of death. For them, the pain is the dying. It seems logical that we can like … Continue reading

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Elders maintain or sustain?

Do we our elders maintain? Or sustain? Welcome them us to sustain? :- Doug.

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Turning in your hand

There is no safety Safety is a lie Told as if true Living is mystery Turning in your hand :- Doug.

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Reliably changing

Truth is noun, ever and always, static. To true is verb, action, developing, morphing, available, alive. Truth is mirage, truing is reliably changing. :- Doug.

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Gathering with the forebears

When we are gathering with the forebears what good can we do? :- Doug.

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Tackle primeval questions

In this course we tackle the primeval questions: What is the meaning of humanicity? Shall we be elders? What is the role of our stories? :- Doug.

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Busy pandemic days

In all the busy-ness of these pandemic days I must make time to love and to reflect. These are of the same substance. Yes, I must. :- Doug.

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