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Further together

We see further together. :- Doug.

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Setting out on a journey

Setting out on a journey we soon need the best of each traveler and each somehow exceeds capability :- Doug.

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Listen to the rhythm of silence

Listen to the rhythm of silence Listen to the thrum underneath Listen to the music of the larger Heartbeat: of this you are a pulse :- Doug.

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We put more effort in getting through

We put more effort in helping people get through old age than enjoying it. :- Doug.

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Playfully the lawyer

Playfully the lawyer re-spins the tale that this family might own a livelier theme :- Doug.

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Exploring, playing, teasing, sweating

Exploring, playing, teasing, sweating This human, this lawyer shifts the shape of our story Shifts the direction of our family :- Doug.

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Shifting the shape of the story

Their story retold The family unfold Shifting the shape of the story Shifts the shape of the world Story is us :- Doug.

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Lawyer–I would that you

Lawyer—I would that you re-tell the story of our family from the old one, set us at liberty :- Doug.

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This quilt is made of story

This quilt is made of story One story many patches O that glimpses were larger A few wrinkles smoothed Our stories retold Our family unfold Shifting the shape of our story Is the core of The healer, the human, The … Continue reading

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Open out! Open out!

Open out! Open out! The bigger the story The bigger the people Hear, take in, let emerge Others—our—parts of the story It’s the only way We grow a bigger future :- Doug.

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Our story is too small

Our story is too small. :- Doug.

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family renews

As the story renews the family renews :- Doug.

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Our family holds a story:

Our family holds a story: a stroke, trach tube, speech gone, crisis, must pull together, but years ago harsh words, hard to stitch this rent fabric Holding our breath we consult a lawyer the lawyer has no silver needle only … Continue reading

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Fix her hair

My wife needs to fix her hair I didn’t notice It was broken :- Doug.

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Like Scott toilet paper

Like Scott toilet paper Is the kind of lawyer I am— Soft, strong, lasts long :- Doug.

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I make poetry because

I make poetry because— life loves me and I love life something alive needs to be shared the all there is matters deeply to me —My feet and hands jangle :- Doug.

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If Mama ain’t happy

If Mama ain’t happy ain’t nobody happy If Daddy’s in the nursing facility ain’t nobody not in the nursing facility :- Doug.

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