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Elder Caring Lawyer

Paddle in the direction the river is going

If we concentrate on what people with Alzheimer’s are missing, on how their “condition” is affecting both of us, we stir up things for them, cause consternation, guilt, inferiority feelings and feelings of things not going rightly. But if we … Continue reading

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Is there life after nursing home?

Is there life after nursing home? We can make that life, if we have the gumption. We can get out all the books and articles about helping children learn to read and to become independent, and see what makes sense. … Continue reading

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Promise to hear

True invitation is a promise to hear. :- Doug.

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Be the love

Be the love you once thought ought belong here. :- Doug.

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You know is best

Do the thing You know is best The best of your self Beyond mere excellence That which is worth a life :- Doug.

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is to love

To be present is to love :- Doug.

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Butterfly wings bright

Butterfly wings bright Dust comes off if you touch then No more can you fly :- Doug.

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Only certain evidence

Evidence-based means only a certain kind of evidence is accepted. :- Doug.

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three classical professions

Lawyer is one of the three classical between professions: this person goes between human and humanity. :- Doug.

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Lawyer: person to person practitioner

Lawyer: person to person practitioner :- Doug.

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elective?

What of this care is elective? :- Doug.

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presence

A lawyer’s stock in trade is presence. :- Doug.

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This is where you can

This is where you can let through your humanity—your kindness—the best self you ever thought you could be. :- Doug.

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I need a soft day

I need a soft day a day to ponder, reflect, to see the tracks of the larger :- Doug.

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What has us in common?

What has us in common? :- Doug.

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Ear I have found

Ear I have found the heart of law. :- Doug.

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Life is in service

Life is in service. How are you in loving service this next moment? :- Doug.

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