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Elder Caring Lawyer

New elder?

What is the new evolving in our elder? How is creation unfolding through her or him? :- Doug.

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Crystal figurines we put on a shelf

We seek safety first for our elders as if they were crystal figurines we put on a shelf behind a glass door: pretty to look at but not to touch! Nonsense! Are they still living? Then they are still creating. … Continue reading

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Computers are the greatest time stealers

Computers are the greatest time stealers Words are the greatest conversation stoppers :- Doug.

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As much as they help

As much as they help words get in the way of our conversation :- Doug.

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business as unusual

Let’s move toward business as unusual business oriented toward life :- Doug.

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Too many words!

Too many words! More conversation please. :- Doug.

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Reversing Alzheimer’s

Here is a report of a small study showing personalized programs have reversed the effects of Alzheimer’s: http://www.upi.com/Health_News/2016/06/16/Personalized-treatment-may-reverse-Alzheimers-memory-loss/6921466083695/ “[T]he researchers designed a personalized 36-point program involving changes to diet, brain stimulation, exercise, optimization of sleep, specific pharmaceuticals and vitamins and … Continue reading

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Show your love

Show your love—converse with us! :- Doug.

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Goes round

Life is love is conversation is life… :- Doug.

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Even our caring heart could not escape

Could we get pulled into a black hole of constricted conversation where even our caring heart could not escape? :- Doug.

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Time can be interleaved

Time can be interleaved—or activities and conversations can be interleaved with respect to time. I email you, you email me at another “time”—one conversation. Asynchronously. Polysynchronously. What if their brains do not allow them to respond while we are still … Continue reading

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Our son mows our huge yard

Our son mows our huge yard. Maybe next year we don’t mow so much. Maybe he won’t want to do it any longer. What we are doing works for today. Tomorrow something else. :- Doug.

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Something more

Your mind does not continue to work as though you were 30: at 70 you have something more. :- Doug.

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Like a tree

Like a tree reach for light :- Doug.

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Choose several:

Five and one-half ways to pay for long-term care: ideally you choose several. :- Doug.

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Grandparents!

Story forth. :- Doug.

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Conversations

The breeze is communing with the leaves the leaves gathering the spring sun the birds calling out “It’s here! Come play!” :- Doug.

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