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happily ever

What would an elder’s fairy tale teach? Would it end happily ever before? :- Doug.

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50-year high school class reunions

We’ve been to two 50-year high school class reunions, and I for one have no desire for more reunions. We, as well as others there, were looking for people we knew, and there were few of those, rather than ones … Continue reading

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Fairy tales for elders

What if we had fairy tales for elders, which told the story of development when least expected? :- Doug.

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Round the clock goes

Round the clock goes first toward word maturity then back again toward images and touch becoming master of one’s soul boat then first mate :- Doug.

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Between us, all we need

What if there were a connecting ease? All we have to do is settle into it? What if between us were all we needed, memory, consciousness, loving? :- Doug.

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What if…there really was a disconnecting disease?

What if…there really was a disconnecting disease? It affected us? We turned away from looking at it? Were simply unaware of it? What if…? :- Doug.

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waves in the same pool

When we treat one person and not ourselves and that person as part of the fabric, we are pulling apart from the person, we are ripping the fabric, we are working against helping the person. If memory and thinking and … Continue reading

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disconnecting disease

Maybe it is disconnecting disease, for we are actively disconnecting ourselves from one another, from life. :- Doug.

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The disconnected disease

The disconnected disease :- Doug.

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suffering under the disconnected disease

We in our culture are suffering under the disconnected disease. We do not see—indeed try to go the opposite direction—that all life is intertwined, one. So we try to treat one person’s dementia or other pathology separately from everyone he … Continue reading

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Maybe it’s metaphor

Maybe it’s a metaphor, maybe it’s actually physical, maybe it’s a reality greater. :- Doug.

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part of the disease

That would make the doctors, hospitals, and researchers part of the disease. Last century the physicists found themselves part of what they were studying. :- Doug.

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Memory exists between people

It is possible, given that socialization seems to protect memory, that memory exists between people: the more it is activated between, the more each holographic member remembers. The same seems true of thinking. :- Doug.

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Want in death?

What do we want in our death? Meaning. Value. Capstone. :- Doug.

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It can save your

Converse with your family now. It can save your death. :- Doug.

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family voices

This is precisely where the family voices prove most valuable: we get various points of view, so we can make more rounded decisions. The conversation now makes the conversation later more united, more peaceful, more focused. :- Doug.

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It helps you understand

Having the end of life conversation may be just as important to your understanding as to your family’s: You have wrestled with some of these questions so that when the actual question arises, you will know how to start picking … Continue reading

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